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How to cure a lack of vaginal lubrication when having sexual intercourse for the first time?

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Published At October 9, 2022
Reviewed AtJanuary 19, 2024

Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am 23 years old. I had always had rapid vaginal lubrication during every minute of intimacy, but recently, while I wanted to have sex (for the first time), I was completely dry and was not aroused even when I wanted. The next day the non-arousal repeated. Can you please advise me on why this is happening?

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Female Arousal Disorder is quite common and could be situational and related to interpersonal relationships. Do not worry. You will come out of it. I advise having a lot of foreplay. Go for oral sex before penetration. Try a lubricant or a vaginal vibrator before intercourse if it does not work.

Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

How can I naturally be lubricated without using any lubricant? After the incident, I have a fear that I will never get turned on, and that is kind of making me ignore my partner.

Hello,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

It may not happen every time. Use a vaginal vibrator. It will stimulate your clitoris and makes you wet.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Sharath Kumar. C
Dr. Sharath Kumar. C

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