Q. Will I lose my virginity if I finger myself?

Answered by Dr. Neha Singh Rathod and medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team.
New
Do you have a question on Fingering or Masturbation? We have medical experts to help you right away. Ask a Doctor Now »

Hi doctor,

I am an 18 year old female, and I masturbate very often. I just rub my vagina, but I do not finger myself. I get really tempted to finger it. Whenever I try to do so, I get nervous and just finish it off by rubbing my vagina. Is it safe to finger my vagina? If yes, how do I do it? What are the safest ways to do it and how often should I do it? Is my hymen going to break if I do so? Will I lose my virginity? Also, is it weird that my vagina becomes wet when I am aroused?

Related Questions:

During masturbation, the penis goes flaccid just before ejaculation. Kindly help.
Is surgery necessary for ovarian cyst?
My fiancee had period like bleeding after first-time sex. Can you explain why?

Dr. Neha Singh Rathod

MBBS., MS OBG
Obstetrics And Gynaecology

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

  • Vagina will definitely be wet when you are aroused, so there is nothing to worry about it.
  • Usually, fingering may lead to infection and irritation. Yes, there are chances of hymen rupture. The rupture of the hymen depends upon how strongly and deeply you insert your finger.
  • Once the hymen is partly or completely ruptured, it means you have lost your virginity. There is no specific number of times you have to have to masturbate. Masturbation depends upon how frequently you get aroused.
  • There is no harm in masturbating, just see to it that you maintain personal hygiene. Even if your fingering, be gentle and wash your hands.

Get back if you have doubt. Take care.

For more information consult an obstetrician and gynaecologist online --> https://www.icliniq.com/ask-a-doctor-online/obstetrician-and-gynaecologist

Related Questions & Answers


Will Masturbation cause Premature Ejaculation
Query: Hi doctor, I am a 32 year old unmarried male. I am suffering from premature ejaculation. I am masturbation from 13 years od age using sex toys. I am not lasting more than two minutes. I am taking antidepressants and doing squeeze technique. But, it does not help me. Kindly suggest medicine for prema...  Read Full »
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi
Psychiatrist

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I can understand your concern. First of all, I would like to tell you that masturbation is not the reason for the problem of premature ejaculation you are having. Masturbation is a safe habit, and most of the men masturbate. Diabetes increases the risk of premat...  Read Full »
 
Is my hymen intact?
Query: Hi doctor, I am 26 years old. I am going to get married. My query is regarding my virginity. I do like to know whether my hymen is intact. Will I bleed during my wedding night? Through hymen, how to know my virginity? Your opinion is of great concern for me.  Read Full »
Dr. Sanjay Kumar Bhattacharyya
Obstetrician And Gynaecologist

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I have gone through the photographs (attachment removed to protect patient identity) which show you have an intact hymen. But, I need to share a few points regarding this topic. Do not think all intact hymen bleeds after sex. Some hymens are too elastic or bloodless so ...  Read Full »
 
After having sex for the first time, is there a way to stop hymen bleeding?
Query: Hello doctor, Can you please give me answers to the following questions, please? After having sex for the first time, is there a way to speed up the cure and stop bleeding of the hymen? How should the bleeding part be cleaned and with what? How do I know that the hymen is totally restored or cured...  Read Full »
Dr. Jimesh H Mavani
Obstetrician And Gynaecologist

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. The bleeding should stop on its own. Clean with only plain water. If bleeding continues for more than one or two days, then consult a nearby gynecologist, you may require some medicines or even a stitch to stop bleeding. Once defloration happens, then hymen cannot be int...  Read Full »
 
Trending

Trending

Ask your health query to a doctor online?

Ask a Doctor Online »
* guaranteed answer within 4 hours.