Why am I not able to maintain my erection during penetration?

Hi,

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• You have not provided sufficient information. Please elaborate more on your problem, for me to help you better.

• For now, I can suggest you use a water-based lubricant like K-Y jelly for lubrication.

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Hi,

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• Your wife might have an intact hymen, which is causing her pain. There is no bony part in the vagina which can obstruct you from entering, the vaginal wall is very flexible and gets adjusted according to the penis size.

• Also, your wife's vaginal muscles can contract (vaginismus), causing pain and difficulty to penetrate, this is more of anxiety issues. She can try some relaxation exercises. Make your wife relax, gain her confidence and do not be in a hurry. Give more time for foreplay, and do not be anxious.

• I suggest you try the following after consulting your specialist doctor.

1. Use water-based lubricants or Conceive plus (fertility lubricants) or an extra lubricated condom.
2. Tablet Tadalafil 10 mg once in a week to maintain erection.

• I need more information regarding the following. What is the age of your wife? Was it a love marriage or an arranged marriage? How long have you dated each other before getting married? Have you had a talk about sexual activity at that time?

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Hi,

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• Thanks for sharing the details. I would like to tell you that you both are totally healthy, try not to get nervous and talk to each other a lot.

• Early morning is the best to get intimate but on mutual understanding.

• Indulge more in foreplay as it will give more confidence to your wife.

• There is no specific position for amateurs, but you can try female on top position as it will relax the vaginal muscles so that it will be easy for penetration. Also, try clitoral stimulation before penetration.

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