HomeAnswersObstetrics and Gynecologypremature ejaculationWhat could be the reason for my premature ejaculation, and how to treat it?

I want to cure premature ejaculation. Please help.

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Published At February 24, 2019
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am having a premature ejaculation problem. I got married five months back. Initially, for two months, I was able to do intercourse well but now before the start of the intercourse, I am getting the ejaculation. We are planning for a child now but I am much worried. My height is 6.1 feet and weight is 224 lbs.

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I can understand your situation.

Premature ejaculation is not a disease of the body and it is seen in almost all men at some point. It occurs because of your tension and anxiety about performing sex or previous bad sexual experiences. Medicines can be taken initially to reduce your anxiety if you are married or having regular sex. Practicing exercises to strengthen the muscles which help in ejaculation and retraining penis to ejaculate late would be a permanent solution rather than medicine. No permanent cure with allopathy, ayurveda or any other system of medicine is there. It happens because of so many factors like as follows:

1. You have been training your penis to ejaculate early all these days.

2. You will be very anxious about losing the erection and will hurry up for intercourse.

3. Glans of the penis may be very sensitive.

4. The desire may be too much.

You can try tablet Duralast 30 mg two hours before sex only till you get confidence.

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

Thank you for the reply.

For now, as we are planning for a baby, shall I start the tablet you suggested before having sex? And can you suggest some exercises to strengthen the muscles which help with ejaculation and how to retrain the penis?

Hi,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

I understand your concern.

You can take the tablet 2 hours before sex only.

You can read about kegels exercises for men and squeeze techniques for premature ejaculation.

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

Thank you for the reply.

I will try the above-mentioned tips and will get back to you.

Hi,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

Do you have any other doubts?

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

Thank you for the reply.

Have not yet tried Duralast.

Planning this week. Please advise how often we can take Duralast.

Hi,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

I understand your concern. Daily or on alternate days, you can take it only before sex.

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

Thank you so much for the advice.

It was really helpful, and we are blessed with a baby boy.

Hi

Congratulations.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Radhakrishnan Nair Bhaskaran
Dr. Radhakrishnan Nair Bhaskaran

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