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Sexual Fantasy

Sexual fantasy also called an erotic fantasy, is an imaginary feeling of arousing sexual feelings, an incident, or a quick fabrication to enhance sexual pleasure and obtain orgasm. It can be based on experience and may impact future sexual activities, lack of which may cause sexual dysfunction. Common fantasies include violent sex, oral sex, group sex, homosexuality, etc.

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How can I overcome compulsive sexual behavior?

Query: Hello doctor,Please suggest some medicine as I am really depressed and I am addicted to masturbation. I also have sexual addictions and compulsive sexual behavior.Kindly help.  Read Full »


Dr. Raveendran S R

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and can understand your concern. I can understand your concern Masturbation is natural, around 95 % percent of guys do it (out of a hundred males). It is just another method to have sex without a partner. It is an excellent exercise. It aids with...  Read Full »

I get attracted to women wearing glasses. Is it an obsession?

Query: Hi doctor, I am attracted to women with glasses. In fact, I am obsessed about it. In all my life, I have masturbated just seeing young and middle aged women wearing glasses and now it has become a kind of compulsion. Even my wife wears glasses and I tell her to put them while having sex and I ejacul...  Read Full »


Dr. Sreenivasan Vazhoor Ramsingh

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. Different men have different fantasies, both sexual and nonsexual. I would have to say that the fact you have an attraction towards women with glasses in itself does not make you abnormal. However, the moment that you start losing control over thoughts like these, then ...  Read Full »

Can I watch pornographic content after marriage?

Query: Hello doctor, I am a 38 years old married man with a daughter. I have a corporate job. It took me a lot of thinking and courage to finally open up about the issue I am facing. I have never spoken about this, not even to my wife or close friends. To give a background, I was brought up in an upper-mid...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. Your first query consult is on us! Thank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. I can understand your situation. It is fine to masturbate and occasionally watch porn or adult movies. Your wife does not have any problem with your pornography but chatting with another...  Read Full »

I have a fantasy of watching someone having sex with my wife and masturbating myself. Please advice.

Query: Hello doctor, I have a fantasy to watch closely when someone has sex with my wife. I reached out to many guys on different hookup sites and paid them to explain how they could have sex with my wife so that I could imagine all scenes and masturbate myself. However, I do not know how to fulfill this f...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. Thank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. You may have voyeurism. If your wife has no problem having sex with another guy in front of you, then it is fine to have this type of fantasy. But it may lead you to trouble in your marriage life in the future. So it is be...  Read Full »

I am a 40-year-old heterosexual male and have started developing sexual attraction toward transsexual women. Is it normal? Kindly help.

Query: Hello doctor, I am a 40-year-old guy and have been married for the past 15 years. I consider myself heterosexual and never had any thoughts or fantasies about guys or men. A few years ago, I ran across a transsexual video and was very much fascinated and aroused by what I saw. I started having fanta...  Read Full »


Dr. Ashok Kumar

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. The first thing I like to tell you is that, from the medical perspective, this is normal, but if we look from the cultural and religious angle, it has a different meaning for everyone. Visiting a transexual bar or engaging in such activity does not make you homosexu...  Read Full »

Why do I masturbate with my thighs and not my hands. Kindly help.

Query: Hello doctor, I am a young male adult, and I masturbate without using my hands. Instead, I sit down and squeeze my penis with my thighs. Kindly suggest me a solution to stop this.  Read Full »


Dr. Raveendran S R

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I can understand your concern. You can have sexual-related issues in the future, like erectile dysfunction, and I suggest you change to hand penis masturbation. It will be difficult for a few months but no other options. You can do it yourself three times a week, or you c...  Read Full »

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