Small Vaginal Orifice

Some women will have a vagina with a narrow opening. It can cause difficulty in penetration and painful intercourse. This condition is quite rare and may often be confused with vaginismus or hymen covering the vaginal opening.

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How to make intercourse less painful?

Query: Hi doctor, I am a 20 year old girl and have a small vaginal opening. My husband and I hardly have sex because it hurts me so badly. What can I do to stop it from being so painful?  Read Full »

Dr. Vidya Muralidhar

Answer: Hi, Welcome to A small vaginal opening can lead to a painful sexual intercourse. I would suggest you use a good vaginal lubricant every time before the act. It would help in smoother penetration of the penis thereby reducing the pain. If this does not help you, dilators can be use...  Read Full »

Why am I having pain while insertion?

Query: Hello doctor, I am having a problem in my sex life. I am unable to have intercourse with my partner. I feel it is painful on insertion. I have attached the photo for clarification. Although I am having sex for past three months, I am unable to complete the session. After a few minutes of sex, it is...  Read Full »

Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary

Answer: Hi, Welcome to I read your query and viewed the attached picture (attachment removed to protect patient identity). Although it is common for many women to take the full length of the penis in their vagina, from the available picture it seems you are having less than optimum space. The p...  Read Full »

What should I do to help myself open up for intercourse?

Query: Hello doctor, I am married for almost a year, but we are not able to have sex. It hurts a lot when we try to have sex. I tried lubricants too still it is not of any help. I can insert one finger, but while trying to have sex, I think I become conscious, and that is why it hurts, so we cannot contin...  Read Full »

Dr. Adithya Sunka

Answer: Hello, Welcome to I do understand the kind of distress you are going through currently. It must be really difficult for you. I appreciate the fact that you have elaborated on your problems in detail. There are a lot of individuals who have such problems/concerns. However, if those c...  Read Full »

Kindly suggest a solution to ease my partner's pain during intercourse.

Query: Hello doctor, I am 29 years old, and my wife is 25 years old. We got married two years back. We have been trying to have intercourse since then but could not get it done. We both involve proper foreplay and have good sexual arousal. I experience good erection, and she also gets lubricated well insi...  Read Full »

Dr. Riyazudeen A. S.

Answer: Hello, Welcome to Is she getting her monthly periods properly? Does she undergo any surgery? Few pelvic exercises are there. I will guide you. Meanwhile, try to insert while having intercourse as much as possible. The diameter will be small initially. As you keep penetrating, the ...  Read Full »

Why is there pain while having sex?

Query: Hello doctor, I am an 18-year-old woman. I am currently on birth control. My boyfriend and I have tried to have sex on three separate occasions, and everything seemed to be going fine until there was unbearable pain, like my vagina is too small or something. I know it is supposed to hurt the first ...  Read Full »

Dr. J. N. Naidu

Answer: Hi, Welcome to Pain during sex in your case may be due to one of the two causes. Some muscle fiber tears during different positions during sex, there are intense movements, and the second possibility is pelvic infection. You did not give the previous history of sexually transmitted di...  Read Full »

My wife's vagina is too tight during sex and we are using coconut oil. Is there any problem?

Query: Hi doctor, I got married for 1.5 years, and we have been trying for kids for the past one year. Whenever I try to have sex with my wife, it becomes very tight, but then we use coconut oil then it goes easily inside. Is it normal or anything problematic?  Read Full »

Dr. Abhay Vikram Singh

Answer: Hi, Welcome to I have read your query and will try to help you out. See, reproduction is a complex procedure, but it is as simple because the urge in us makes it easy. What I will suggest you is that do not rush for intercourse. It is a natural process that just flows with it. Sta...  Read Full »

Kindly give a solution for pain during intercourse.

Query: Hi doctor, My wife is having pain during sexual intercourse from initial days. First time she had some bleeding. The bleeding stopped within a few days. Initially it was very difficult. Then we started to have it full fledge. After a month, there is no pain, but still insertion hurts her every time....  Read Full »

Dr. Bharat Udey

Answer: Hello, Welcome to It is quite common to experience pain during coitus, especially for a newlywed woman who had never done sex before. This happens because of the narrow introitus (vaginal entrance) which need to accommodate the male penis. For a virgin woman, pain with bleeding is comm...  Read Full »

How can I loosen my vagina?

Query: Hello doctor, How can I loosen my vagina? It is too tight and painful during sexual intercourse and please suggest me a piil for opening my vagina. Please help me. It is too hard.   Read Full »

Dr. Albana Greca

Answer: Hello, Welcome to I think your partner is rushing too much when having sex. You should collaborate with him, and give time to get a full orgasm along with your partner. If you do so, your vagina will get loose too. However, if persisting, there are two main reasons: 1. Your partner...  Read Full »

What is vaginismus?

Query: Hi doctor,I got married before 18 months. But, I am still a virgin. I am not able to take it inside. I do not know whether it is due to fear or what. I badly need to be out of it. Please help.  Read Full »

Dr. Sameer Kumar

Answer: Hello, Welcome to You are likely to be suffering from vaginismus. Please follow up with detailed history. Revert back with detailed history to an obstetrician and gynaecologist online -->  Read Full »

Can you suggest few measures to increase the size of my vaginal opening?

Query: Hi doctor, I am 23 years old. I got married before two years. I still have pain while having sex. My husband says vaginal opening is too small hence it is painful for him too. We are badly in need of a baby now. Please suggest some measures to increase the size of my vaginal opening. Thank you.  Read Full »

Dr. Nidhi Jain Bukharia

Answer: Hi, Welcome to Usually small vaginal opening happens due to dryness of vagina or if you are not fully excited. So, vagina is not dilated and there will be less mucus secretion, which will ultimately cause painful sex (dyspareunia). Follow the following few things regularly, which wi...  Read Full »

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