Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I never had any issues with my sex life before, but recently I have been experiencing pain inside my vagina at the beginning of intercourse. Once I become sufficiently wet, the pain goes away, but when my partner pauses or withdraws during sex and then reinserts, I feel discomfort as if the bones around my vagina are rubbing together. This makes me uncomfortable. Please help.
Thank you.
Hi,
Welcome to icliniq.com.
I read your query and can understand your concern.
You might be experiencing vaginal dryness, pelvic floor tension, or changes in vaginal elasticity. Possible causes include:
Insufficient lubrication – Lack of arousal before penetration can lead to dryness and pain.
Pelvic floor muscle tightness – Overactive or tight pelvic muscles can cause discomfort.
Hormonal changes – Stress, birth control, or hormonal shifts may affect vaginal moisture and elasticity.
Pelvic infections or inflammation – Conditions like vaginitis (the inflammation of the vagina), endometriosis (a condition where tissue similar to the uterine lining grows outside the uterus, often on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, or pelvic organs), or pelvic inflammatory disease or PID (a serious infection of the female reproductive organs (uterus, fallopian tubes, ovaries) usually caused by sexually transmitted bacteria) can cause pain.
Bone or nerve sensitivity – If it feels like your pelvic bones are “touching,” it could be due to pelvic floor dysfunction or nerve sensitivity.
What can you do?
Use a water-based lubricant to reduce friction.
Ensure adequate foreplay to enhance natural lubrication.
Try pelvic floor relaxation exercises like deep breathing and gentle stretching.
Avoid rough or deep penetration if it causes discomfort.
Stay hydrated and maintain a balanced diet to support vaginal health.
When to see a doctor?
If pain persists or worsens.
If you experience burning, itching, or abnormal discharge.
If you suspect a pelvic infection or hormonal imbalance.
A gynecologist can check for infections, vaginal atrophy (a condition where the vaginal walls become thin, dry, and less elastic due to decreased estrogen levels), or pelvic floor issues and recommend treatment.
I hope this helps.
Kindly revert so I can assist you further.
Thank you.
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