Where should I insert my penis during intercourse?
Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I recently got married and have a few doubts about intercourse. I am not clear about the vaginal spot. Where should I insert my penis exactly? I had a chat with my partner, and she said that it is the spot where the gynecologist tested her uterus when we had a general check-up. Please suggest.
Also, in the missionary position, I am able to insert easily, but not in doggy or other positions. Does the position matter? During full erection, my penis is slightly bent downwards. In that case, which position exactly works out? When I try to deeply penetrate, it is hitting or blocking at a spot, and she seems to be quite uneasy. Also, do I need to release my sperm on that spot where it hits?
Sometimes, post ejaculation and two hours after being in bed, when she urinates, some sperm come out of her vagina, she says. Is that expected, or do we need to deeply penetrate? She is an O- blood group, and I am B+. Being a third-degree relative to her, does a negative blood group matter or block conception?
We have been trying for the past six months, and post-marriage, she got her periods early twice, and only once she got her periods delayed. On all other occasions, she had regular periods. Also, we have big differences in height as well. I am 5 feet 10 inches, and she is 4 feet 9 inches.
Please guide.
Hello,
Welcome to icliniq.com.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
The vaginal opening is located at the junction of the upper two-thirds and the lower one-third between the two soft skins, and there you need to insert the penis while having intercourse. Position matters, but it is not above your comfort. However, it is important to try different positions to add spice to your sex life.
You can release your sperm anywhere you want, including outside the vagina or deep inside the vagina. If it is blocking you, it means your partner is not lubricated properly, and there is a need to make more effort during foreplay.
There is a need to follow up with your doctor after conception as pregnancy-related complications do occur when the mother is of a negative blood group.
I hope this helps you. Feel free to write back to me if you have more questions.
Thank you.
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