Answered by Dr. Shazia Anjum

Feeling shaky and hand tremors and unable to do simple tasks..

Hi doctor,

I am 31 years old. I am a known diabetic. I have been experiencing perioral movements and tremors in hand. I am on Seroquel for depression. Please help.

11 Mar 2024 - 1 min read

I masturbate a lot. But I do not feel any sexual attraction towards my wife.

Hi doctor,

I am a 30-year-old male, married for the last year. My wife is a good-looking, well-educated, smart girl and I adore my wife a lot and take care of her well. Unfortunately, I do not feel any sexual attraction towards my wife. The frequency of sexual intercourse is as low as once a month and in any of those sessions I had, I was never able to ejaculate. Below are a few facts that may help you understand my problem:

1. I used to masturbate once or twice every day before we started staying together. Now also, I continue doing the same, but not that frequently.
2. I can ejaculate whenever I masturbate.
3. My style of masturbation is quite different than the too-and-fro action that happens in normal sexual intercourse.
4. I used to watch a lot of porn earlier which I have almost stopped in the recent past.
5. I have paid for sex in the past before marriage.
6. I feel sexually attracted to other girls.
7. And sometimes I feel like having sex outside, though I have not done that.
8. I do not have any extramarital affairs.
9. My testosterone level is normal.
10. Almost every day I wake up sleepy.

Everything is great in our relationship apart from this. This issue is putting a lot of stress on us (mainly on her). She is going into depression which is hurting me a lot. I want this married life to continue well.

Please help.

11 Mar 2024 - 1 min read

How to avoid early morning erection?

Hi doctor,

I am 20 years old. My penis is 9 inches in erected state. Is it abnormal to have penis of such length? I get my penis hard very easy and fast. I end up masturbating 1 or 2 times a day. Is it normal? At times, I am able to masturbate without my penis being fully erect also. Few mornings I wake up with erect penis which is embarrassing. Please suggest a solution to this. In adult movies, they show when men masturbate a lot of cum comes out of the penis. Whereas in my case not much cum comes out. Please address my queries.

09 Feb 2024 - 1 min read

My problem is low sexual drive. Please suggest some medicines without side effects.

Hello doctor,

I am a 30 year old male. I got married a year back. My problem is low sexual drive. Are there any safe medicines to induce sexual desire? Also, my penis is circumcised. So, my penile glans are dry and insensitive. Is there any topical cream available to increase the sensitivity of my penis? Is L arginine cream effective? Please suggest some medicines without side effects.

02 Feb 2024 - 1 min read

My problem is over-thinking a situation and also sleeping disorder.Please help.

Hello doctor,

• My problem is over-thinking a situation and also sleeping disorder.

• During some of my personal issues I am thinking too much.

• So, this leads to lack of sleep and illness causing other problems.

• First thing I want to know is how to control my feelings and my mind.

• Please suggest me a treatment for good sleep and anti-stress medications.

02 Feb 2024 - 1 min read