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Why can’t I pass stool normally after holding a strong urge?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I once held a very strong urge to poop for too long, and since then, I have not been able to have normal bowel movements. Even when I feel the urge, sometimes nothing comes out or only a very small amount.

I have tried OTC medications, Miralax, powdered fiber, and regular exercise, but they have not helped me return to normal. What could be the cause?

Kindly suggest.

Answered by Dr. Ayyala Somayajula Sai Sudha Meghana

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Ayyala Somayajula Sai Sudha Meghana is a medical graduate with one year of clinical internship experience across various specialties including dermatology, family medicine, gynecology, ophthalmology, ENT, urology, and preventive care. She is trained to manage a wide range of conditions—from common concerns like skin and hair issues, PCOS, infections, and fatigue to chronic diseases such as diabetes and hypertension. Her approach is practical, empathetic, and patient-centered, focused on helping you understand and safely manage your symptoms.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I understand your situation. Holding in a bowel movement too long can cause constipation and change how your bowels work. The stool may harden, the rectum can become less sensitive, and the muscles may not coordinate properly.

This can make passing stool difficult even when you feel the urge. Since you still have problems despite using Miralax, fiber, and exercise, the issue may be functional.

It could be related to muscle coordination or rectal sensitivity rather than just stool hardness. This is why your usual remedies have not been enough. Here are some tips to improve bowel movements:

  • Keep stools soft by drinking 0.5 to 0.7 gallons of water daily and eating a high-fiber diet (fruits, vegetables, whole grains).

  • Sit on the toilet at the same time each day, preferably after meals, and allow yourself enough time without straining.

  • Try warm drinks in the morning to help stimulate bowel movement.

  • Avoid excessive straining, as it can worsen your symptoms.

Since your constipation has lasted despite OTC (over-the-counter) remedies, seeing a gastroenterologist is recommended. They may check for issues such as pelvic floor dysfunction, anal fissure, or rectal outlet obstruction and suggest stool softeners, suppositories, or even biofeedback therapy.

I hope this helps you.

Thank you.

Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At November 14, 2025
Reviewed At November 17, 2025

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Ayyala Somayajula Sai Sudha Meghana is a medical graduate with one year of clinical internship experience across various specialties including dermatology, family medicine, gynecology, ophthalmology, ENT, urology, and preventive care. She is trained to manage a wide range of conditions—from common concerns like skin and hair issues, PCOS, infections, and fatigue to chronic diseases such as diabetes and hypertension. Her approach is practical, empathetic, and patient-centered, focused on helping you understand and safely manage your symptoms.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Ayyala Somayajula Sai Sudha Meghana is a medical graduate with one year of clinical internship experience across various specialties including dermatology, family medicine, gynecology, ophthalmology, ENT, urology, and preventive care. She is trained to manage a wide range of conditions—from common concerns like skin and hair issues, PCOS, infections, and fatigue to chronic diseases such as diabetes and hypertension. Her approach is practical, empathetic, and patient-centered, focused on helping you understand and safely manage your symptoms.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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