Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I am a 35-year-old woman who has been struggling with severe sleep problems for the past eight months, and it is completely exhausting for me. I lie in bed for hours, unable to fall asleep, with my mind racing with worries about work, family, and random thoughts I cannot shut off. Even when I do manage to fall asleep, I wake up multiple times throughout the night and often cannot get back to sleep, especially around 3 or 4 AM. On a good night, I might get three to four hours of actual sleep.
During the day, I feel exhausted, irritable, and unable to concentrate at work. It feels like I am in a constant fog. I have tried everything I can think of, no caffeine in the afternoon, avoiding screens before bed, warm baths, and reading, but nothing seems to help. The lack of sleep is making me more anxious, which in turn makes it even harder to fall asleep. It feels like a vicious cycle.
I am also dealing with stressful changes in both my work and personal life. Could stress and anxiety be causing my insomnia? And why can’t I seem to break this cycle of sleeplessness? Is there a connection between my racing thoughts, daily stress, and my inability to stay asleep through the night? How to manage this?
Kindly advise.
Hello,
Welcome to icliniq.com.
I understand your concern.
The symptoms you are describing difficulty falling asleep, frequent night awakenings, racing thoughts, and extreme daytime fatigue, which are classic signs of chronic insomnia. Stress and anxiety are likely playing a central role in maintaining this cycle.
When you are under ongoing emotional pressure, your body stays in a state of heightened alertness, making it extremely difficult to relax enough to fall asleep or stay asleep. The racing thoughts you experience at night suggest your mind remains in problem-solving mode, even when your body is trying to rest. This mental overactivity often stems from unresolved daytime stress, creating a vicious cycle: poor sleep leads to more anxiety, which then worsens sleep.
Even though you have adopted healthy habits like avoiding caffeine in the afternoon and limiting screen time, those alone may not be enough when the root cause is psychological arousal. This kind of insomnia is typically driven by a hyperactive stress response and learned sleep anxiety, where the brain starts associating bedtime with frustration and worry.
Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) is highly effective in breaking this cycle. It helps restructure the thoughts and behaviors that fuel sleeplessness and teaches you how to manage your sleep drive and stress levels more effectively.
In some cases, short-term use of sleep aids or medications for anxiety may be helpful, but long-term relief usually comes from addressing the underlying emotional and physiological triggers and resetting your sleep pattern through structured therapy. You are not alone in this; chronic insomnia is common, especially during periods of life transition. With the right support, you can reclaim restful sleep.
Before prescribing any medication, I would like to ask, have you ever had your thyroid levels checked? And could you please share your current weight? This is important because we need to rule out obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), which often occurs in people who are overweight and is typically associated with loud snoring at night.
Before starting any medication for chronic insomnia, it is essential to identify and address any underlying causes contributing to your sleep difficulties. This includes:
A comprehensive medical evaluation to rule out conditions such as thyroid dysfunction, chronic pain, menopause-related symptoms, or sleep disorders like obstructive sleep apnea and restless leg syndrome.
A mental health screening, as anxiety and depression are closely linked to insomnia. Treating these conditions often significantly improves sleep.
A medication review to ensure that none of your current prescriptions are worsening your insomnia.
Lifestyle assessment, including the use of caffeine, alcohol, or nicotine.
Maintaining a sleep diary for one to two weeks to track sleep patterns and triggers.
The first-line treatment remains cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), which addresses the root causes of stress, racing thoughts, and poor sleep habits.
If medication is needed during severe or acute phases, the following short-term options may be considered:
Sedative-hypnotics such as Zolpidem or Eszopiclone.
Low-dose antidepressants with sedative effects, such as Doxepin or Trazodone.
If anxiety is a major factor, short-term use of benzodiazepines like Lorazepam may be used cautiously, although they are not recommended for long-term treatment due to dependence risks.
I hope you are satisfied with my answer. For further queries, you can consult me at iCliniq.
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Answered byDr. Ashraf Ghani
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