Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I have not gotten out of bed for days, except to go to the bathroom. I can not eat, and even though I sleep for over 14 hours, I still feel exhausted and have stopped showering. My boss put me on leave after I broke down in tears during a presentation. I tried therapy years ago, but it felt like I was just going in circles. A friend told me that her depression medicines changed everything, but my primary care doctor only prescribed me sleeping pills. I got divorced last year, and my kids are with my ex most days, which makes the house feel so empty. I have started having thoughts about not wanting to wake up anymore, and that really scares me.
Please tell me;
What is actually wrong with my brain?
Is this major depression?
Will taking pills make me addicted?
Kindly help.
Hello,
Welcome to icliniq.com.
I read your query and can understand your concern.
You are facing deep exhaustion, inability to function, loss of interest in life, overwhelming sadness, and intrusive thoughts about not wanting to wake up. These are not signs of weakness. They are classic signs of major depressive disorder, a very real and treatable medical condition that affects brain chemistry, energy levels, motivation, and even physical health.
Your brain is likely experiencing imbalances in neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine, the same way someone with diabetes has insulin imbalances. Depression can distort how you perceive yourself, your future, and even your value to others.
Antidepressant medications will not make you addicted. Modern treatments like Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or Serotonin–norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) are designed to gradually improve your psychological status.
Yes, it may take two to four weeks to notice the effects, and sometimes adjustments are needed, but many people find they regain stability and clarity with the right treatment. Some medications also help with sleep and anxiety and can be combined safely with other therapies. You can also go for cognitive behavioral therapy and counseling for improvement.
I hope this information helps you.
Feel free to ask further queries.
Thank you.
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Answered byDr. Aissa Youcef Mouffoki
Medically reviewed byiCliniq medical review team
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