Can I get infected after kissing a guy with herpes?

Hello,

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I understand your concern.

I am really glad you are paying attention to changes in your body; that is important. If someone with herpes kissed you, the risk of transmission depends on several factors. Here is a clearer explanation:

It depends on the type of herpes and whether the person had symptoms at the time. Most likely, he was referring to oral herpes, HSV-1 (herpes simplex virus), which causes cold sores.

• If he has an active cold sore, the risk of transmission is high.

• If he has no visible sores or symptoms, the risk is lower but not zero, because herpes can still be spread asymptomatically.

Estimated risk:

• No visible sore: Low risk, possibly less than 10 percent.

• Active sore or tingling (prodrome): Higher risk, potentially 30 to 50 percent, depending on the level of contact.

If you want to pursue a relationship, here is how to protect yourself:

1. Understand the type of herpes he has: HSV-1 typically causes oral herpes. HSV-2 usually causes genital herpes. Ask whether he was diagnosed by a blood test or based on visible symptoms.

2. Avoid kissing or oral contact during active symptoms: No kissing, oral sex, or sharing drinks when he has a cold sore or feels tingling (a warning sign of an outbreak).

3. Daily antiviral medication helps: Medications like Valacyclovir can reduce the chance of transmission by about 50 percent.

4. Use protection if things become sexual later: Use condoms, and avoid sexual contact during outbreaks.

I hope this has helped you.

Please feel free to reach out to me again if you have further queries.