Why does my husband feel discomfort due to my IUD?

Hello,

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I understand your concern.

If your husband is able to feel the intrauterine contraceptive device (IUD) during intercourse, the most common reason is that the intrauterine contraceptive device strings are longer, stiffer, or positioned in a way that makes them noticeable. Normally, the strings soften and curl around the cervix over time and should not cause discomfort to the partner. In some cases, however, the strings may need to be trimmed slightly by a gynecologist, which is a simple outpatient procedure and often resolves the issue.

Another possibility is partial displacement or low positioning of the intrauterine contraceptive device, which can also cause discomfort and should be evaluated with a pelvic examination and, if needed, an ultrasound to confirm proper placement.

Since you have systemic lupus erythematosus and are on long-term medications, it is especially important not to ignore this and to have the intrauterine contraceptive device position checked rather than attempting any self-adjustment. Until you are reviewed, it may help to try different positions during intercourse that cause less cervical contact.

I would strongly advise a gynecologic review to assess the strings and intrauterine contraceptive device position and manage it appropriately, as a well-positioned intrauterine contraceptive device should not cause pain or discomfort to either partner.

I hope you are satisfied with my answer. For further queries, you can consult me at iCliniq.

Thank you.