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How to manage premature ejaculation during foreplay?

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Published At March 8, 2024
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Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

I am suffering from premature ejaculation sometimes during foreplay. I am going to marry, and I want to get rid of this problem. I masturbate too much, and whenever I am with my partner, I ejaculate after a few seconds of penetration and even during foreplay. Now, my marriage is scheduled after a few months, but I want my sex organ to work perfectly. Please help.

Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I can understand your concern about your symptoms.

There are many reasons for premature ejaculation. Some of them are:

1. Stressful work, night duties, and 24-hour jobs.

2. Diabetes, hypertension, and thyroid issue have an effect on premature ejaculation. Keeping your blood sugar, blood pressure, and thyroid hormones under control will help you.

3. Long-term medication related to hypertension and anti-psychiatric medications.

4. Frequent masturbation or prone masturbation.

5. Excess porn.

6. Receiving less foreplay from a partner or lack of knowledge regarding foreplay and female masturbation.

7. Having an affair gives you a guilty feeling.

8. Lack of exercise and obesity.

I suggest you check FBS (fasting blood sugar) or PPBS (post-prandial blood sugar) to rule out diabetes, check your BP (blood pressure), and free T3, T4, and TSH (thyroid-stimulating hormone) to rule out thyroid issues. I also suggest you use the tablet Duralast (Dapoxetine) 30 mg as a temporary solution. A natural method to increase the foreplay duration during sex is in the following ways:

1. Women should receive 15 to 20 minutes of foreplay, and men should receive 10 to 15 minutes of foreplay for a good blood supply to the penis for a long and hard erection.

2. Foreplay should be in a relaxed manner.

3. Your partner should learn to give foreplay in a way you do not ejaculate and enjoy.

4. You can try relaxing music.

5. Delay condoms can help you.

Inserting the penis into the vagina is not everything in sex. Sex is not a race, and duration does not mean your partner is happy. Love your partner, learn about female masturbation, and give your partner an orgasm or climax.

Hope this helps.

Kind regards.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Raveendran S R
Dr. Raveendran S R

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