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What are the ways to overcome pain during sexual intercourse?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am a 26-year-old female. I have been dating a guy for the past ten years. I do not have the urge to indulge in sexual activities. We indulge in other physical activities like foreplay but not sex. We tried having sexual intercourse, but I was in pain. I do not get aroused despite having foreplay. All this is making my partner frustrated. I am worried if I can have sex in the future as we are planning to get married soon.

Kindly help.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui is a Psychiatrist with 16 years of clinical experience. He is specialized in Sexology and Psychotherapy. He completed his MBBS from Maharashtra University of Health Sciences, Nashik in 2007, and his MD in Psychiatry in 2012. Currently, he is practicing in Maharaja Agrasen Medical College, Haryana.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Thank you for your query.

I understand your concern. First of all, the reason for the problem should be found. You have tried doing sex twice, but due to pain, it failed. This means that you have libido, but due to pain, you cannot have good sexual intercourse. The reason could be psychological, physical, or both. Have you ever tried fingering your vagina? The physical issue can be ruled out if you can push a finger in the vagina without much pain. If you have never tried it, then you can try this. Also, use good lubrication during penetration.

I hope this has helped you. Thank you.

Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At January 14, 2023
Reviewed At January 3, 2024

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui is a Psychiatrist with 16 years of clinical experience. He is specialized in Sexology and Psychotherapy. He completed his MBBS from Maharashtra University of Health Sciences, Nashik in 2007, and his MD in Psychiatry in 2012. Currently, he is practicing in Maharaja Agrasen Medical College, Haryana.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui is a Psychiatrist with 16 years of clinical experience. He is specialized in Sexology and Psychotherapy. He completed his MBBS from Maharashtra University of Health Sciences, Nashik in 2007, and his MD in Psychiatry in 2012. Currently, he is practicing in Maharaja Agrasen Medical College, Haryana.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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