Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I am an 18-year-old female. I am not able to achieve orgasm while having sex with my boyfriend.
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Thank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. Sex is not one-sided, it requires two-person proper involvement. You need to talk about it to your boyfriend. Talk about likes and dislikes in sex with your boyfriend. You both must spend more time in foreplay and after play. Girls like more foreplay and it leads them to excitement and orgasm rather than just play (sex).
Foreplay means spending time (before sex) in a kiss, playing with breasts, touching, hugging, talking about love, naughty, etc.
Play means sex- vaginal penetration.
After-play means spending time after sex.
Girls like to talk after sex and boys want to sleep after sex. So you need to ask your boyfriend to spend time after sex and talk about sex or love. Try different positions and places. Keep your sex life interesting and add some spice.
Ask your boyfriend to penetrate your vagina when you have enough vaginal secretion like wetness, so you will enjoy it better and helps you to reach orgasm.
I hope that you get your answer. Please let me know if you want any further assistance.
Thank you.
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Answered byDr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi
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