Orgasm refers to the peak of sexual excitement. It is an intense feeling of pleasure, and it has multiple benefits because of the hormones and chemicals released by the body during an orgasm. There are different types of orgasm, such as clitoral, vaginal, and anal. Not everyone experiences sex and orgasm the same way.
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I am an 18 years old female. I do not have any vaginal secretion while having sex. Should I be concerned?
Query: Hello doctor,I am an 18-year-old female. I am not able to achieve orgasm while having sex with my boyfriend. Read Full »
Answer: Hello,Welcome to icliniq.comThank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. Sex is not one-sided, it requires two-person proper involvement. You need to talk about it to your boyfriend. Talk about likes and dislikes in sex with your boyfriend. You both must spend more time in foreplay and after play.... Read Full »
I find it difficult to get an orgasm from a partner through internal stimulation. Why?
Query: Hello doctor, I cannot get an orgasm from a partner, and the thing is, it is 100 % impossible for me to get an orgasm from internal stimulation. All the partners I have been with are extremely good at what they do, and it feels amazing, but I can never get to the point of orgasm. I am capable of it ... Read Full »
Answer: Hi,Welcome to icliniq.com.I thoroughly read your query and understand your concern.I can see you are always under pressure while having sexual intercourse. If you are not completely relaxed and your mind is thinking about other things (how your facial expressions are or if you are looking sexy, etc)... Read Full »
I have been experiencing trouble reaching orgasm while masturbating for a month. Please help.
Query: Hello doctor, I am facing an issue for a month where I am unable to reach orgasm in masturbation. However, before I used to masturbate frequently and have a nice orgasm and pleasure feeling. However, now I just ejaculate semen but no pleasure feels. I am very stressed about why it happened suddenly... Read Full »
Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I understand your concern. Thank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. I can understand your situation. You are doing over-masturbation. Even if it is pornography or erotic material which makes your threshold for pleasure high, you do not get an orgasm because you n... Read Full »
I am a 21-year-old female experiencing pain in the pelvis after orgasm and also having PCOD. Please help.
Query: Hello doctor, I am a 21-year-old girl. Whenever I touch my private part, I can only feel the clitoris, but after an orgasm, I feel intense pain in my right or left pelvis. The pain starts after ten mins and continues for one hour, or the orgasm remains for one day or two days. I have been diagnosed ... Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. Thank you for your query. Pain could be due to many reasons like just bowel or gastric problems, premenstrual pain, anxiety or stress-related pain, pelvic or vaginal infection, etc. Better to investigate vaginal swabs, transvaginal and per-abdominal scans, and cervi... Read Full »
I do not achieve orgasm even after trying various methods. Why?
Query: Hello doctor, I have never achieved orgasm without a vibrator. For years, I have experimented with different pressures, methods, stuffs and followed the advice of hundreds of articles, but nothing worked. I always make sure that I have enough time and relaxation. I have tried so many methods involv... Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. Female masturbation is a complicated one. Yes, I have few patients who were not satisfied with many methods. Male masturbation works only more physical, and few mental work but female masturbation works with more psychological and few physical tasks. Method, if anythin... Read Full »
How does clitoris help women orgasm?
Query: Hello doctor, I want to know a few things about the clitoris. 1. How does the clitoris work and how it helps women orgasm? 2. What kind of signals does it send to the brain? 3. What are the psychological effects it might have? 4. Why people tend to misunderstand the most about it? Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. The clitoris is a substitute for the male organ in the female. It has some tissues similar to that of male organ but not that much active. It has receptors that can be stimulated by touch on having sex, especially at foreplay. During foreplay, these receptors when get ... Read Full »
My wife is not experiencing an orgasm with our intercourse lasting less than two minutes. What should I do?
Query: Hi doctor,My wife says that she does not experience an orgasm. So I wanted to consult and take suggestions from you.To give more details, our intercourse time would last for less than a minute for the very first time, and after five minutes, if we try again, it would last more than a minute and less... Read Full »
Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. Personal relation other than sex is too important for your sexual and marital life. 1. It is better to have some combined recreational activity regularly like going on outings, planting, gatherings, or social events for personal, emotional, and social well-being. 2. ... Read Full »
Why do I have trouble in getting an orgasm?
Query: Hello doctor, I have been unable to achieve an orgasm lately. It started disappearing midway during sex with my husband. Now I just cannot get one at all. I have not been able to self-pleasure in years, and I have never been able to get an orgasm via oral sex. I have always had great sex with my hus... Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. You are probably suffering from female orgasmic disorder (FOD). Substance use can cause FOD. Certain medical conditions can also result in female sexual dysfunctions. Kindly get a blood panel done to rule out an organic cause. I suggest: Foll... Read Full »
Is the difficulty in achieving orgasm caused by antidepressants temporary?
Query: Hello doctor, I am a 51 year old house wife married since 24 years. I am healthy and maintain a normal life and do my routine household work every day. I do yoga for one hour regularly under a trainer. Though I am yet to have my menopause, I have been experiencing the symptoms of menopause like hot... Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and understand your concerns. First of all, I would like to inform you that it cannot be considered normal and it is probably the side effect of the medication. Clonil (Clomipramine) is a well-established cause for delayed ejaculation in men and t... Read Full »
I have difficulty achieving orgasm alone or with my partner. Please help.
Query: Hello doctor, I am 20 years old and I have problems with orgasm. I have tried alone multiple times and have been with my partner for five years now, but I have never been able to achieve orgasm. I find this slightly upsetting and frustrating, as if I am doing something wrong. Currently, I am taking ... Read Full »
Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and can understand your concern. This is a common problem in those who do not have an emotional attachment to their partner. Those females who only limit themselves to legally married husbands are more satisfied, feel more pleasure and achieve orga... Read Full »