We tried to have coitus but I am not able to penetrate into her. What is the problem?

Question

Hi doctor,

I am a 26-year-old male. I got married recently. We tried to have coitus but I could not penetrate into her. When I do foreplay, she allows me. But she does not do anything to me as I do to her. Even if I kiss her, she does not even kiss me back. But she allows me. I know that she loves me. When we are completely naked, she allows me to touch her. But I could not see any sex mood on her face. When I touch her with clothes, I am able to erect better. When we are naked and see her, I do not have an erection. I tried my best to erect and tried to penetrate into her. After few minutes, I have some ejaculation of sperms. What is the problem? Before marriage, I use to get sex urges often. I use to watch porn movies and masturbate often. During that time, I was able to have a better erection. During the first night, I had a complete failure which I dreamed of. It made me feel disgusting.

Answer 1

Hi,

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It occurs commonly in many people. It is called performance anxiety. You are very anxious about your sex performance. If you do not have any specific health issues, your sexual arousal or performance will improve soon. Stop doing masturbation and watching porn. It helps to improve your sexual performance. Reduce stress by increasing physical activity daily. Do brisk walking. Play games and do yoga for 45 minutes. Communicate to your wife and say her that her initial sexual problems occurred due to anxiety. Eat more boiled vegetables and fruits.