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What should I do if I cannot reach orgasm only during sex with not when I masturbate?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I masturbated for about ten years. I am married now and do not reach orgasm during sex, while I do not have a problem with masturbation. This has made me tired and I am also upset that I cannot have a successful sex relationship with my partner because of my masturbation. How can I solve this mental or physical problem? Kindly help.

Answered by Dr. Rajesh Jain

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Rajesh Jain is a Family Physician and General Practitioner with extensive experience in clinical medicine. He has been serving in the Government Health Services of Maharashtra since 1993 and also manages his own clinic in Jalgaon. With a broad understanding of Allopathy, Homeopathy, and Ayurveda, he provides comprehensive healthcare solutions tailored to each patient’s needs.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I read your query and can understand your concern.

Do not worry. I suggest the following.

  1. Please avoid all sexual activities, including masturbation, for a few weeks to rejuvenate your urogenital system.
  2. Do perineal and pelvic exercises regularly.
  3. Go for walks regularly.
  4. Do meditation regularly before sleep.
  5. Use lubricants during intercourse always.
  6. Spend more time in foreplay.

I hope this helps.

Thank you and take care.

Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At September 16, 2022
Reviewed At January 22, 2024

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Rajesh Jain is a Family Physician and General Practitioner with extensive experience in clinical medicine. He has been serving in the Government Health Services of Maharashtra since 1993 and also manages his own clinic in Jalgaon. With a broad understanding of Allopathy, Homeopathy, and Ayurveda, he provides comprehensive healthcare solutions tailored to each patient’s needs.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Rajesh Jain is a Family Physician and General Practitioner with extensive experience in clinical medicine. He has been serving in the Government Health Services of Maharashtra since 1993 and also manages his own clinic in Jalgaon. With a broad understanding of Allopathy, Homeopathy, and Ayurveda, he provides comprehensive healthcare solutions tailored to each patient’s needs.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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