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Why is there incomplete penetration with pain?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I got married one month ago and since then we are trying to have sex. Me and my husband are both virgins. However, the first attempt did not succeed and with time we try more but until now every time he penetrates me I get pain and feel his penis is not entering fully like there are burdens that keep him from entering correctly along with burning feeling even when using gel. And when we try a doggy style I do not feel anything only air enters and no pleasure at all. Kindly help.
Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R

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Dr. Raveendran S R is a dedicated diabetes specialist and sexual medicine expert committed to providing evidence-based, confidential, and patient-centered care. With strong clinical and academic experience, he specializes in managing diabetes, erectile dysfunction, male infertility, performance concerns, and other men’s health conditions through structured and scientifically guided treatment approaches. Dr. Raveendran focuses on accurate diagnosis, personalized treatment plans, and long-term health improvement while ensuring patient comfort and privacy. Known for his compassionate and professional approach, he believes in clear communication and helping patients make informed decisions to improve their overall health, confidence, and quality of life.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

If penetration is the problem, then check for your partner erection status, and penis size.

If pain is the problem, check for vaginal infection, vaginismus.

If pleasure is the issue, few females respond only to vaginal massage or masturbation, not to penetration.

Medically reviewed by Dr. Divya Banu M
Published At July 31, 2019
Reviewed At January 3, 2024

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Dr. Raveendran S R is a dedicated diabetes specialist and sexual medicine expert committed to providing evidence-based, confidential, and patient-centered care. With strong clinical and academic experience, he specializes in managing diabetes, erectile dysfunction, male infertility, performance concerns, and other men’s health conditions through structured and scientifically guided treatment approaches. Dr. Raveendran focuses on accurate diagnosis, personalized treatment plans, and long-term health improvement while ensuring patient comfort and privacy. Known for his compassionate and professional approach, he believes in clear communication and helping patients make informed decisions to improve their overall health, confidence, and quality of life.

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Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Raveendran S R is a dedicated diabetes specialist and sexual medicine expert committed to providing evidence-based, confidential, and patient-centered care. With strong clinical and academic experience, he specializes in managing diabetes, erectile dysfunction, male infertility, performance concerns, and other men’s health conditions through structured and scientifically guided treatment approaches. Dr. Raveendran focuses on accurate diagnosis, personalized treatment plans, and long-term health improvement while ensuring patient comfort and privacy. Known for his compassionate and professional approach, he believes in clear communication and helping patients make informed decisions to improve their overall health, confidence, and quality of life.

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