Why do I ejaculate faster when touched with hands?

Question

Hello doctor,

I have this issue where when she sucks my penis, I do not ejaculate fast, but when she strokes it with her hand, I tend to nut very quickly.

Please help.

Thank you.

Answer 1

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I have gone through your query and understand your concern.

The pattern you describe is actually quite common and does not necessarily indicate a medical problem. Different types of stimulation can produce very different levels of arousal and sensitivity. Hand stimulation is often firmer, more focused, and more similar to the pressure many men are accustomed to during masturbation, which can lead to ejaculation more quickly.

Based on your description, this sounds more like a difference in stimulation rather than true severe premature ejaculation.

If you feel that ejaculation during intercourse or manual stimulation is occurring sooner than you would like, techniques such as slowing the pace, taking brief pauses when arousal becomes very high, and focusing on relaxation can help improve control.

Tab Duralast 30 mg (Dapoxetine) may be taken about one hour before intercourse if it has been prescribed for you.

Do you also ejaculate quickly during vaginal intercourse, or is it mainly during hand stimulation?

I hope I have answered your question.

Let me know if I can assist you further.

Thank you.