HomeAnswersPsychiatryvoyeurismI have a fantasy of watching someone having sex with my wife and masturbating myself. Please advice.

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Published At July 10, 2022
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Hello doctor,

I have a fantasy to watch closely when someone has sex with my wife. I reached out to many guys on different hookup sites and paid them to explain how they could have sex with my wife so that I could imagine all scenes and masturbate myself. However, I do not know how to fulfill this fantasy or come out of this fantasy. I am wasting a lot of money and time to imagine this and feel happy. I would appreciate it if you could provide any advice.

Hello,

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Thank you for taking help from a psychiatrist. You may have voyeurism. If your wife has no problem having sex with another guy in front of you, then it is fine to have this type of fantasy. But it may lead you to trouble in your marriage life in the future. So it is better to stay out of it. I recommend to stop watching erotic material on the internet. It will ruin your life. It is better to go for role play with your wife, do sex with some different position or place and make it exciting but do not allow someone else to enter your marriage or private space.

I hope that you get the answer. Let me know if you want further help.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi
Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

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