Answered by Dr. Rahul Kansal

Answered by Dr. Rahul Kansal

What causes a penis to be hard even in a flaccid state?

Hello doctor,

My penis is not soft in a flaccid state. It is always a little hard even when in a flaccid state. It is also a little painful when squeezed and after sexual activity. The color of my semen is always mild yellow. When I urinate, it takes four or five minutes to empty the bladder. It comes out fully, but then the last bit takes longer. I feel like the muscles in that area are constantly tight. My testicles get sore easily if they are squashed or I sleep on them. It feels like the penis is constantly engorged with extra blood flow and makes me feel aroused when I do not want to. For instance, when I urinate, even its touching seems to stimulate it easily, with no sexual thoughts. But if I have a sexual thought on other occasions, it also responds very quickly without much time. I only have very little control over it. When it get erect for the sexual activity, it does not feel the same sensation as it used to. Instead, it feels rubbery. It never used to be this way previously. I also find that the unwanted erections and hard flaccid state are much worse for three days after sexual activity. It never goes away, but it is terrible in those days. Because it is firm and looks semi-hard under my clothing, it can cause a great deal of embarrassment and unwanted impressions. Please help.

19 Apr 2024 - 1 min read

Is the white discoloration on the penis due to phimosis?

Hello doctor,

My current issue is related to the skin color of my penis. I have noticed a change in color, specifically a whitening effect, both on the shaft of the penis and the skin beneath it. This change has been present for a considerable period of time and appears to be progressing. In the past, there has been a case of skin rupture in the area below the skin where it joins the shaft which had caused me pain, particularly during erections or intercourse. However, I am currently not experiencing pain, itching, or other related symptoms. I want to know the underlying causes and the appropriate treatment for it. Kindly help.

09 Oct 2023 - 1 min read

Kindly help me to get some sleep before exams.

Hello doctor,

I have an upcoming exam. I am unable to sleep no matter what. It has been three days I have not slept at night and yet I cannot fall asleep. I did take Restyl 25 mg for about 10 days. But I have stopped. Yesterday, I had taken a tablet and yet I cannot sleep at night.

12 Sep 2023 - 1 min read

My past ugly experiences are pulling me back. Is there a remedy?

Hi doctor,

I used to be an obedient girl since my childhood as I am the youngest in my family with two elder brothers, which I am till now and I think I should not be so obedient to elders as from childhood I have faced every kind of abuse. I have been into three relationships out of which two relationships ended because of my family and one I ended it myself because he abused me and I could not take. My family tries to support me, scolds me in my failure, and happy when I progress but no one asks me what I have been through so many years. I am currently single, 22. After facing this cruel world for so many years, I have lost faith in people. I have been through many bad things. I had a social life, kind of have it now. But I never feel that connection with someone unless he is my boyfriend. But after having three bad relationships, I do not want to hurt myself more. When I am with my friends, I am the one who is most cheerful. But I want my alone time after some time to get back my energy. I am a private person, I am ambivert in my terms. Also, I never make or want to make new friends. If they approach, I do not have any problems. I guess I have some psychological problem. Also, I have anxiety issues and I have periodical depression. Also, I am always confused about everything, be it my career or anything. I guess I should not be confused because I have always been appreciated for my work everywhere. Recently, I was promoted in my probation period, but still, I feel I do not have confidence. I think that my past ugly experiences pull me back. I wanted to know what is the remedy.

07 Sep 2023 - 1 min read

How can I correct my eye ogling while talking to someone?

Hello doctor, During childhood days I was a bit introvert but used to enjoy a lot by playing all sorts of indoor and outdoor games apart from studying. During college days also no issues were there as such. But while joined in a metro city as my first job felt bit awkward that I was not able to mingle with all people in my colony. I used to avoid social activity a bit. After that posted in a remote area where stayed for five years and enjoyed a lot mixing and partying with all sort of people. Then I was posted to my home place where one influential boss wanted to keep me in his section but due to pressure from higher up he had to give up his idea, but directly or indirectly he was harsh. That was the beginning I feel. Along with that during that posting, I used to travel a lot, worked almost day and night just for my good name, that people will appreciate. Got lots of appreciation but these process initiate. During initial days after few hours of conversation people used to know about my eye ogling issue but now I feel within few minutes they can make out. Please help. I want to change it at any cost. Sometimes doing exercise, yoga but not so regular. My sleeping is very good, after going to bed, within a few seconds I used to sleep. Previously during any stomach ache, hand pain, headache for any reason, I used to think I will die very soon for that cause. What will happen to my family and so on. Although in my family, my wife has a good job and have only one child. But during last few months, much of change was going on in a positive way. During any farewell or any party if any photography will be there then my face will be in very much in tension. So nowadays during the photography session, I am avoiding that and instead, take photographs of all. Slowly and steadily I want to change eye ogling issue. My eye ogling look is like someone is surprised to see something strange. I know I can change but an efficient or proper support is needed. Never taken any medication. For blood pressure taken Repace 25 initially two years back. From mid of last year taken Repace 50. And later started taking CTD T 6.25/40. Felt many a time to stop this CTD T due to no such tension except eye ogling.

07 Sep 2023 - 1 min read

Dr. Rahul Kansal
Psychiatry

Education

MBBS., MD PSYCHIATRY

Specialties

Psychiatry

Specialized Treatments

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