She always blames someone for everything. Guide me how to handle this?

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com. Your one liner problem description is very difficult to answer; though I will give a shot at it.

• What makes you to think that your wife had Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Has she been diagnosed by a psychiatrist or you yourself think that she might be having such disorder?

• Does her sister stay with you? On which issues she blames her sister? Has it anything to do with sibling rivalry?

• How long have you been married and how is your relationship with her?

• Does she behave with you in the same manner?

Kindly give a detailed account of her personality, temperament and your problems. Only on providing detailed complaints, will I come to know about the exact situation and offer you best advise.

Alternatively you can book for an online therapy for your wife to further diagnose.