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Published At January 31, 2024
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am in a new relationship and worried about discussing my erectile dysfunction with my partner. How can I approach this conversation sensitively and ensure that both of us feel comfortable discussing and addressing the issue together? Kindly suggest.

Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I have read your query and can understand your concern.

Yes, it is challenging to discuss, but it is important to have this conversation for the well-being of your relationship. Here are some tips on how to approach this conversation sensitively:

  • Choose the right time, place, and private setting to have this conversation.

  • Be honest and open.

  • Explain that you want to discuss a personal issue, and emphasize that you are sharing this because you care about your partner and want to be open and honest in your relationship.

  • Express your feelings and experiences using "I" statements. For example, say, I have been experiencing some challenges with my sexual health, rather than making it seem like your partner is responsible.

  • You can frame the conversation as a health issue rather than solely a sexual performance concern. This can help reduce potential feelings of blame or inadequacy.

  • Share how ED (erectile dysfunction) makes you feel, both physically and emotionally. Explain any anxiety or stress you may be experiencing as a result. Your partner will likely appreciate your vulnerability.

  • Allow your partner to express their feelings, concerns, and questions. Encourage them to share how they feel and what they need from the relationship.

  • Let your partner know that you value their support and understanding. Reiterate that you are working on resolving the issue and that you would appreciate their support and patience.

  • Remind your partner that you are attracted to them and that the ED is not a reflection of your feelings toward them. Reinforce the emotional connection you share.

  • Understand that your partner may need some time to process this information. Be patient and ready to revisit the topic when they are ready to discuss it further.

    I hope this information helps you.

    Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Raveendran S R
Dr. Raveendran S R

Sexology

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