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Though I get erection, I ejaculate within 20 seconds. Please help.

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Hi doctor,

I am 36 years old. I weigh about 106 kg, and my height is 5.8 feet. I am going to be married soon. I have been masturbating since I was 15. Now, I have the problem of quick release. I get an erection and get discharged within 20 seconds. I am very much worried and depressed due to this problem. Please help.
Answered by Dr. Kanitkar Nishant Rajeev

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Dr. Kanitkar Nishant Rajeev is a highly experienced General Practitioner and Family Physician with extensive years of clinical practice. He provides comprehensive primary care services to individuals and families, focusing on preventive health, chronic disease management, and overall well-being. Dr. Rajeev is dedicated to offering patient-centered care, accurate diagnosis, and effective treatment plans, ensuring his patients receive holistic and continuous medical support across all stages of life.

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Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Congratulations on your marriage.

I can understand your concern. First of all, your problem of premature ejaculation is completely psychological. I suspect, because of your obesity, you may be low on confidence and may have certain insecurities and apprehensions about your sex life. I assure you will not have a problem when you marry, if you carry out these few steps daily.

1. Remove all insecurities about yourself from your mind.

2. Meditate daily.

3. Repeat positive affirmations daily.

4. When you masturbate next time, try to slightly increase your time by a few seconds. For eg. If your current limit is 20 seconds, try to get to 25 seconds the next time, then try to get to 30 seconds after a few days. Take it slowly. Be confident.

5. Remove insecurities about women's expectations, as if you really love your partner, your sex life would be amazing, inspite of your weight or your body, or your size, etc.

I hope this helps.

The Probable causes

Obesity. Insecurities about their own physique.

Regarding follow up

Consult a psychiatrist in a month if this persists.
Medically reviewed by Dr. Vinodhini J.
Published At August 21, 2020
Reviewed At September 19, 2020

Education:

MBBS

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Dr. Kanitkar Nishant Rajeev is a highly experienced General Practitioner and Family Physician with extensive years of clinical practice. He provides comprehensive primary care services to individuals and families, focusing on preventive health, chronic disease management, and overall well-being. Dr. Rajeev is dedicated to offering patient-centered care, accurate diagnosis, and effective treatment plans, ensuring his patients receive holistic and continuous medical support across all stages of life.

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Dr. Vinodhini J. is a Dental Surgeon with extensive years of clinical experience. She specializes in the diagnosis, prevention, and treatment of dental and oral health issues, including restorative, surgical, and cosmetic procedures. With a patient-centered approach, she focuses on maintaining oral health, alleviating discomfort, and enhancing smiles. Her expertise ensures comprehensive care tailored to each patient’s dental needs and overall wellbeing.

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Dr. Kanitkar Nishant Rajeev

General Practitioner

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Kanitkar Nishant Rajeev is a highly experienced General Practitioner and Family Physician with extensive years of clinical practice. He provides comprehensive primary care services to individuals and families, focusing on preventive health, chronic disease management, and overall well-being. Dr. Rajeev is dedicated to offering patient-centered care, accurate diagnosis, and effective treatment plans, ensuring his patients receive holistic and continuous medical support across all stages of life.

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