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Sense Of Insecurity

Everyone feels insecure sometimes, but feeling insecure all the time due to childhood trauma, failures, rejections, loneliness, social anxiety, or negative thoughts, you need treatment. Cognitive-behavioral therapy is helpful for such people.

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My first child does not want a sibling. Please help.

Query: Hello doctor, My wife is five weeks pregnant and it is the second time. Our first kid is now 6.5 years old. He is totally refusing to have a sibling. He makes statements like "I do not want a brother or a sister". We are a good family like this." He says it is not a good idea to have a baby". He do...  Read Full »


Dr. Akanksha Sharma

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. What you are describing in your child is the normal insecurity of the firstborn child. Whenever there is a second baby expected due to the constant attention that the coming baby gets, the first child gets insecure and feels unsafe as young children have a diff...  Read Full »

I am jealous of my elder sister and feel ashamed admitting the same that I am jealous of her. Please help.

Query: Hi doctor, Since I was young, I have always been jealous of my older sister (5 years older than me). I am so ashamed and hate admitting that I am jealous of her because I love her so much. I have always been told that I am so pretty and have great features, but since she had her nose job, everyone h...  Read Full »


Dr. K. V. Anand

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I can understand. You already know the answers to your questions. You can have your nose done without any issues and can look pretty. You are younger than your sister by five years. After five years, you could also look beautiful like your sister. You could be prettier ...  Read Full »

I have been in a three-year extramarital relationship with a married man, but my objective is to be stress-free for our relationship to be in balance. Kindly help.

Query: Hello doctor, I have been having a three-year extramarital relationship with a married man. I have been struggling with his family for the past year. Possessiveness and insecurity, emotions and unloved. I want his wife to no longer be a part of his life. I would instead not harm them yet at the same...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and can understand your concern. You must move out of this relationship. There is no future in it. He is just using you. He will not leave his wife for you. So just move out of this. It will be difficult for you, but it is far better for your future. ...  Read Full »

I lose focus and become insecure when I talk to people. Why?

Query: Hello doctor, My problem is that whenever I talk to anyone I lose my focus suddenly in between the conversation and become insecure. I am unable to focus and always get distracted while talking to people. Kindly help.  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. Thank you for your query. I understand your concern. You are suffering from social anxiety. You need to be confident. Start talking with yourself by making your eye to eye contact and looking into the mirror. Read good books, write a journal or your thoughts that wi...  Read Full »

I am very thin and insecure about my body. Please give tips for weight gain.

Query: Hi doctor, I am 24-years-old and I am very thin. I have tried everything for weight gaining. I am on a proper diet. I also do regular exercise. I used to go to the gym for weight gain. I have taken the food supplements and I have tried each and every possible way to gain weight. I feel very insecur...  Read Full »


Dr. Vandana Andrews

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I am glad you chose icliniq for your medical-related queries. I understand your concern and will try to help you with it. Thank you for sharing your concerns with me. I can understand that it can be frustrating to feel like you have tried everything but still struggli...  Read Full »

I think of my boyfriend the whole day and am scared of losing him. How can I overcome this feeling?

Query: Hello doctor,I am a 25-year-old female. My height is 5 feet, and my weight is 145 pounds. My main problem is that I cannot control my mind, so I doubted my boyfriend because he likes someone else. He said they were just friends and wanted to be friendly with me, but I was scared that I would lose hi...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. You can either be his friend or his lover, but not both. Either stay with him accepting that he will not marry you, or move on and do not be friendly with him. It will be difficult for you, but it will help you later. I suggest you move on in your life, and you must ...  Read Full »

How to overcome my partner's public affection?

Query: Hello doctor, I have been in love with a guy for more than three years. He used to hug me and kiss me in public, but I did not appreciate it. Even though I felt like hugging him in public, I could not do it. My mind keeps thinking of the surrounding people. So because of this, we used to fight a lot...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and can understand your concern. It is common to feel awkward in this situation in our culture, especially for girls. It would be best if you had talked about it with your partner. When you are in a relationship, both people must respect each other's ...  Read Full »

I am suffering from feelings of sadness, loneliness, and insecurity. Please help.

Query: Hi doctor,This is the first time I am doing this, and I did this because I badly need someone's opinion about what is happening to me. I feel sad, lonely, and alone. I do not know where to start cause I know they are a lot of things that trigger this in me. First, maybe I feel insecure about every l...  Read Full »


Dr. Aditya Gupta

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I want to mention that it does not matter what others think about you but yourself. Sometimes you do not have control over the situations and what others do, but how to cope is in your hand. If you cannot share your feelings with anyone, maintain a stress diary, log...  Read Full »

My boyfriend is insecure and possessive. How do I deal with it?

Query: Hello doctor, How to deal with my jealous boyfriend? He is always the first one to start an argument. He is so insecure that the last time we were having lunch, he told me he wanted to leave because I glanced at a guy. He then thought I was trying to flirt with him. Honestly, I did not took a glance...  Read Full »


Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. If he is not letting you look at another guy, that too an accidental look, then that is very wrong. He is saying he might leave you if you repeat this. This is not a good thing. The first thing you should do is to become more assertive and tell him sternly that trust ...  Read Full »

What is the management of social phobia, insecurity, anger, and loneliness?

Query: Hello doctor, My 26 years old son has social phobia, insecurity, anger, adamancy, irritation, unsatisfaction, doubts, and loneliness. Symptoms are present for many years but for the last two years, it has aggravated a lot. He does not leave the house or meet people, never speaks and blames me for e...  Read Full »


Dr. Seikhoo Bishnui

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. The problems you have mentioned like blaming you for his faults, not listening to others, irritability, anger outbursts, suspiciousness, remaining alone, etc., could be occurring due to some underlying mood disturbance. Suspiciousness could be due to some psychotic p...  Read Full »

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