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Is it normal to not have penetrative sex after marriage?

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Published At April 27, 2024
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I have been married for 4 months and have not had penetrative sex. Is that normal? I am a virgin and 31 at present.

Please help.

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Thank you for your query.

It is completely normal for couples to wait to have penetrative sex, whether it is for religious, cultural, or personal reasons. Many couples choose to wait until they are married before engaging in sexual activity. However, if you are concerned about your husband's claim that he is a virgin as well, it is understandable. He may be being truthful, but it is also possible that he has experienced sexual activity before meeting you. Suppose you are uncomfortable with this possibility or have concerns about your husband's sexual history. In that case, having an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and any questions you may have may be helpful. Remember, your health and happiness are of utmost importance, and it is always better to err on the side of caution when it comes to your sexual health.

I hope this helps. Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Vandana Andrews
Dr. Vandana Andrews

General Practitioner

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