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How to manage children's emotional well-being and promoting positive behavior?

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Published At August 27, 2023
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

My son is eleven years old and often seems sad and down. Yesterday, I scolded him for his mischievous behavior. Since then, he has stopped talking to me and remains depressed. I am seeking advice on how to help my son become a good and obedient boy. Please assist me in finding a solution.

Thank you.

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com. I have read your query and I can understand your concern.

I am sorry to hear that your son is feeling depressed. It is important to understand his feelings and support him during this time. However, I suggest you to follow a few instructions mentioned below to help you improve your relationship with your son and support his well-being:

  1. Talk openly: Create a safe space for your son to express his feelings. Listen to him without judgment and let him know that you understand how he feels.

  2. Validate his emotions: Show your son that his feelings are important and valid. Do not dismiss or belittle what he is going through.

  3. Apologize and make amends: If you scolded your son and it upsets him, apologize for your reaction and explain that you want to improve your communication with him.

  4. Spend quality time: Dedicate special time to do activities your son enjoys. This will strengthen your bond and create positive experiences.

  5. Encourage healthy activities: Encourage your son to engage in hobbies, exercise, or spend time with friends. These activities can improve his mood and reduce stress.

  6. Teach problem-solving skills: Help your son develop skills to solve problems and express his needs effectively. Encourage him to consider different perspectives.

  7. Set clear expectations: Communicate your rules and expectations clearly, while allowing some age-appropriate independence.

  8. Seek professional help if needed: If your son's depression persists or worsens, consider seeking guidance from a mental health professional.

Remember, building a good and obedient child takes time and effort. Focus on nurturing a loving and supportive relationship with your son and supporting his personal growth and well-being. I hope this will help you.

Thanks and regards.

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Dr. Veerabhadrudu Kuncham
Dr. Veerabhadrudu Kuncham

Pediatrics

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