I have noticed lately that my 2-year-old does not defend himself. Why?

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As a parent, I can understand that it will be difficult to see your little child being hit by others. It is commonly encountered in real life and can be managed gently with helping your son to be more assertive, develop boundaries and relationships with his peers. Each child has a different temperament and personality. Some children, like your son, maybe more gentle, may not naturally defend themselves against bullying peers. But you can teach him to stand up for himself. Teach him to say 'Stop, do not do it' if someone is hitting him. You can play with him and train him to say 'Stop' in a loud voice. If done regularly, your son will learn that he can control the situation and become more confident. Also, support him to develop peer relationship skills and how to play together with other children. This can help to avoid other children targeting him. Encourage your son to talk to you if someone is hitting him. Also, put in a word with your son's kindergarten teacher if you have any concerns about his peers hitting him. Teachers have a responsibility to ensure all kids are safe in the classroom. I hope this helps you.