My penis got bent during rough masturbation. What should I do?

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I appreciate that you have come up with the issue before wasting money, as many people do. Also, you have described your problem very clearly. I have seen the attached photos (attachment removed to protect patient identity). It is not a penile fracture from the history and the look. There is a slight downward tilt, which does not warrant any treatment. The pain at the start of sex is due to less lubrication; use your saliva profusely over your penis and your wife's genitals before penetration. The appearance of the penis is also very normal. Erection is dynamic and depends on many environmental and mental states. The decreased erection is transient and variable many times and will return to normal in time. With increasing sexual experience, the pleasure and erection may be less occasionally. For burning after ejaculation, I suggest increasing the frequency of sexual intercourse to twice a week at least. If it is persistent, then get a urine routine before and after the prostatic massage. I suggest you try the tablet Tadaflo (Tadalafil) 5 mg every evening. It is a very low dose of Tadalafil for 15 days.

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I suggest taking the tablet Tadaflo (Tadalafil) 5 mg daily evening. If premature ejaculation is a problem, then we can discuss that but after 10 days of starting the treatment. The brain is a larger sex organ than the penis or breast. Any sexual act should culminate in the satisfaction of both partners to be successful. The way of having intercourse is more important than the physical appearance of your organs to your partner. Many marriages are under stress due to the need for sexual counseling. Social inhibition to seek medical advice on issues like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction may lead to poor sexual quality of life. For men having early or premature ejaculation, a wide range of treatments is available. First, one should give importance to partner satisfaction. Foreplay is very important in sex. Considering sex as a horse riding game is the biggest mistake. Directly inserting the penis and knocking it off in a minute is bound to leave the female partner dissatisfied. So, start lovemaking with a minimum of 20 minutes of foreplay, fondling, caressing, and stimulating your female partner till she gets an orgasm. Then, you can have intercourse, and even if you have premature ejaculation now, it will not bother you much. The next part is treating premature ejaculation and increasing intravaginal latency time.

There are physical and medical ways to control premature ejaculation which include, use of a condom with local anesthetic gel on the inside of the condom decreases sensitivity, holding on movements for a moment when feeling the urge of ejaculation and starting again once this feeling settles down and squeezing of the penis at the base by the female partner may hold orgasm. If all these measures are not up to your satisfaction, then medication can be given like Dapoxetine before sexual activity to delay orgasm. The stepwise approach in this manner helps most of the patients. So, stop worrying about the size or appearance of your organs.