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Low libido can have various underlying causes, which include:
1. Hormonal contraceptives: Some hormonal contraceptives may lower libido in women. They can also cause vaginal irritation, reducing the willingness to engage in sexual activity.
2. Sexual pain (Dyspareunia): Pain during sex is a common issue, but it can often be treated. Consult a sexual health specialist who can recommend a suitable treatment plan. This might involve a referral to a psychologist or a pelvic floor physical therapist.
3. Relationship issues: Emotional closeness is a vital aspect of sexual intimacy. Problems in a relationship, such as a lack of connection, unresolved conflicts, or trust issues, can significantly contribute to a low sex drive.
4. Previous trauma: Past physical or emotional trauma can profoundly affect one's sexual experience and lead to low libido. Sexual desire and arousal are often dulled in individuals who have been physically or sexually abused. These negative associations with sex can lead to avoidance or decreased desire.
Treatment for low libido involves addressing these causes. Here are some tips to combat low libido:
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Start an exercise program: Regular aerobic exercise and strength training can increase stamina, improve body image, elevate mood, and boost libido.
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Plan a trip: Take a vacation for yourself or with your partner, but avoid going with other couples, as this can be distracting. This dedicated time for intimacy can help rekindle your sex drive.
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Communication: Sometimes, just sitting across from each other at a restaurant and engaging in light conversation can work wonders. Focus on spending quality time together, without any expectation of sexual encounters.
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Stress reduction: Find ways as a couple to better manage work and home-related stress. Consider delegating tasks or skipping commitments when possible to reduce daily stress.
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Quit bad habits: Smoking, illegal drugs, and excessive alcohol consumption can diminish your sex drive. Quitting these habits may help restore your libido and improve your overall health.
If you are experiencing low libido, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health. Your primary care provider can recommend a trusted expert who can conduct a comprehensive evaluation and physical examination. Depending on the underlying causes, they may recommend therapy, counseling, medication, or hormone therapy to help boost your libido.
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