HomeAnswersObstetrics and Gynecologypain during sexI have pain during intercourse and a tear in my perineum. Please help.

What causes pain during intercourse in a 21-year-old woman?

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Published At November 8, 2023
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am 21 years of age. I lost my virginity at 19 years of age. Since then, I have always experienced pain during sexual intercourse and there is always a tear in the perineum area. I weigh 147 pounds and I am 5 feet 9 inches tall. What is the cause and suggest a solution?

Hello,

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I read your query and understand your concern. Pain during sexual intercourse and tearing in the perineum area can have various causes. It is important to consult with a healthcare professional, such as a gynecologist or a specialist in sexual health, who can properly assess your situation and provide personalized advice. Possible causes of pain during intercourse and tearing can include:

1. Inadequate lubrication: Insufficient natural lubrication or not using enough artificial lubricant can lead to friction during intercourse, causing discomfort and tearing. Using a water-based lubricant may help alleviate this issue.

2. Vaginismus: This is a condition where the muscles of the vaginal wall involuntarily contract, causing pain during intercourse. Treatment may include physical therapy, pelvic floor exercises, counseling, or other interventions suggested by a healthcare professional.

3. Infections or medical conditions: Conditions such as yeast infections, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), or certain gynecological disorders can cause discomfort during sex. A doctor can evaluate and diagnose any underlying conditions and recommend appropriate treatment options.

Treatment for a perineal tear can vary depending on the severity of the tear. Here are some general steps that may be taken:

1. Keep the area clean: Clean the perineal area gently with warm water and mild soap to prevent infection.

2. Pain relief: Over-the-counter pain medications such as Acetaminophen or Ibuprofen may help alleviate pain and discomfort. Always follow the recommended dosage instructions and consult a healthcare professional if needed.

3. Ice packs: Applying a cold compress or ice pack wrapped in a cloth to the area can help reduce swelling and provide temporary relief.

4. Sitz baths: Sitting in warm water baths (also known as sitz baths) for around 15 to 20 minutes, a few times a day, can help promote healing and relieve pain.

5. Avoid strenuous activities: It is important to avoid activities that put a strain on the perineum, such as heavy lifting or vigorous exercise, until the tear has healed.

6. Consult a healthcare professional: If the tear does not heal or continues to cause pain and discomfort, it is important to consult a healthcare professional for further evaluation and treatment options. They may recommend techniques such as suturing or other interventions, depending on the severity of the tear.

I hope this helps.

Thank you.

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Dr. Vandana Andrews
Dr. Vandana Andrews

General Practitioner

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