How to overcome suicidal thoughts from exploitation?

Question

Hello doctor,

I am suicidal and feel manipulated and exploited. My parents never listen to what I say and indirectly or directly cause some very unpleasant memories. I just want to be an ordinary kid, play computer games and stuff, and not do academic stuff all the time. But they do not listen; instead, they push me down to a bottomless hole and drive me crazy. Kindly help. Thank you.

Answer 1

Hello,

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I understand your concern. Suicide is not a solution to any problem. There is no problem in the world that does not have any solution. We just have to see from a different view. Take a break in your life. Think about what you want to do in the future. If you are not interested in the study, leave it but what you want to do to survive in this world, think about it. If you have something fruitful to do except study, then talk about it with your parents. Make sure that they believe in your plan. Strictly stay away from any form nonrecreational drugs or alcohol. Stay away from social media or limit its use. Do not live a virtual life; come to the reality of life and the world. If your parents do not listen, then someone older who believes in you can talk with your parents. Ask your parents what they want from you and why they want it. Talk politely with parents. Do not make any unnecessary arguments. It is a very tender age, and do not make any decisions in a hurry. Relax and think. Life is very beautiful. Enjoy it. Hope this helps. Thank you.