How to cope with relationship conflicts with in-laws?
Hi doctor,
I am depressed and have relationship conflict. I am unable to understand my issues with mother-in-law over things that I could easily ignore and move on. I am over sensitive and tend to get heart breaks every while. I fight with my husband because of weird situations with my mother-in-law and then I regret fighting with him as he is my only support. I feel I am over-dependent on him emotionally. What to do? Please help.
26 Apr 2024 - 1 min read
How to cope with bullying, rejection, and gender identity?
Hi doctor,
I am 26 years old. Since I was a kid, I was always bullied because I was born to be a cleft palate. Also, I am a transgender. My parents, especially my father did not care for me. Instead, he will just keep on scolding me. He will compare me to my other relatives, and he will hurt me. I stop studying in college for almost four years because I was bullied. I envy other people because they were born with no physical defect. In order for me to be appreciated, I just lie to my parents. I seek love to other people and crave for attentions. I pretend to be a girl to my previous and present boyfriend, and I always get hurt. I do not want to hurt anyone, but I cannot help myself to pretend to be a girl with a perfect face because all my life I was always being bullied. I always want to experience to be normal. For me to escape from reality, I just think of the happiness that I could have with my boyfriend. Although my friend does not know that I am not a real girl and I am not the person he sees me in the picture. There are moments and times that I want to commit suicide because I am so depressed and so problematic in family, school, love life and my future. I have planned that once I got work, I want to have surgery to be a transgender, to be beautiful and so that they will not reject me anymore. Please help me. I cannot understand myself anymore. I am always emotional, but sometimes I am happy. But, most of the time I am very lonely. What would I do?
26 Apr 2024 - 1 min read
What are the ways for increasing one's self-esteem?
Hello doctor,
I have poor self-esteem and prefer to live alone. Most of the time, I feel quite unhappy and miserable. I feel worthless. I believe that all of my professors and students hate me. As a result, I am unable to concentrate on my studies, and my grades have dropped significantly.
Please help.
Thank you.
23 Apr 2024 - 1 min read
What are the non-SSRI treatment options for depression?
Hi doctor,
I am suffering from depression, anxiety, and OCD. I have tried triglycerides and SSRI, but they do not seem to work. I also have BP and diabetes. I am currently on cardiac medicines as I have undergone angioplasty twice. Please suggest me the treatment for depression.
22 Apr 2024 - 1 min read
How to overcome from Cymbalta induced hypermania?
Hello doctor,
I recently was on Cymbalta minimum dose but did not feel better. I felt worse and was told to up the dose then I took 120 mg, still felt bad. So I abruptly stopped this and it triggered discontinue syndrome and hypermania. I have not felt the same since. I am not suffering so much now from hypermania after a month or two. I am Lamictal and when needed on Seroquel.
On current medicines, I feel blank, unstable, unable to think normal, and some frustration, anger thinking, concentration, and speech affected at times. I feel I need to go back to antidepressants, my brain needs that and boosts mood and taper off appropriately like Effexor or Lexapro. I have had success but Lexapro cause stomach issues and Effexor is good but can cause weight gain or if working in the night it can cause mood swing. I believe my current issue is just because of Cymbalta induced hypermania. I did get psychosis from LSD. Do you think I should taper off Lamictal to Effexor low doses?
18 Apr 2024 - 1 min read
