How to test infertility?

Hi doctor,

I have some personal questions about fertility and infertility. I am so worried about this, and I want to get it off my chest as soon as possible because I want to know about this. I want to know if I am alright or not. I often cannot stop thinking about this, so I have to know. I have a problem with my genitals, and it happened when I was younger. I have been damaged so much in my life, and ever since then, it just has me so scared. My genitals are not the same. I do not know if I can satisfy a woman the same when it was normal. No woman will want me if I can not satisfy them like a normal man, or give them a kid, and I too, want at least one kid. I was just young and so naive. I was not thinking, but now I am older and wiser, and I can think more clearly and see things through. Please do not tell me I am ruined for life, lost a testicle, or something like that.

I do not know if I can have a kid or not. I believe everyone deserves to have at least one kid. I am pretty sure any woman I will be with is going to want at least one, preferably a girl, and want a kid a whole lot more than me. No woman is going to want me if I can not give them a kid, at least one, and I will feel like less than a man, not a man at all, incomplete if I find out I can not have one. I do not want to hear bad news, I cannot stand bad news, nobody can. So, how do I determine if I can have a kid or not? Do I have to see a fertility doctor? Is it a matter of if I just have sperm or semen? Is all sperm or semen the same? I know I still have sperm or semen, or is it a matter of if all the parts of my genitals are still intact? I also pee a whole lot now, way more than before I got like this, way more than normal than I supposed to be. Is it anything I can do about that? Are there any tests or X-rays, that I can take to find out if I can have a kid or not, or just try? Do you have any answers to any of my questions? If so, can you please answer them, and can you please help me out? I would appreciate it, thank you.

For the guy, it is a matter of if they have good sperm or not. A guy's sperm count starts decreasing when he is in his 30s, I believe. I think around 32, it gets less, and I am 32 now, and his sperm goes into the woman's something, I am not sure, and then the baby develops, and so forth and so on. I was bleeding from the head of my penis around it. You can see the marks, scars from it, you know what I am saying. There was no blood coming from the hole where I urinate, not in my pee, but I bled from the head of my penis like I said before, so that should not be a problem. After that, that made me circumcised. I do not even know if I knew what circumcised was then. I know what circumcision is now, though. Then after that whole circumcision incident, I was exposed to so much air on my penis. So ever since then, I urinate a lot, so much sometimes that I feel so drained. Can I get my penis normal? Do I need a fertility test? What is involved in it? Is it just a matter of urine, or what? I have acid reflux and constipation sometimes, but nothing too serious that I know of. So, I just try to eat right. I am a health-conscious person who does not eat right if that makes any sense at all. I try to eat right, but it is hard, you know. Is there some kind of pills or medicine that I can take?