HomeAnswersPsychiatrymasturbationI have been concerned about my interest in BDSM. Is it a serious problem?

Should a person who is interested in BDSM be concerned about health problems?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am a 14-year-old male and I have been concerned about my interest in BDSM (bondage, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism). After researching online, I have learned that BDSM is considered a normal and healthy sexual activity. I am only interested in bondage and not the other aspects of BDSM. However, during my research, I came across information about the BTK killer, who had similar interests in bondage, torture, and cross-dressing at a young age. This has made me worried about whether my preference for bondage indicates any potential similarities to BTK Killer. Can you provide any insights?

Kindly help.

Thank you.

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Thank you for your query.

I understand your concerns, and I want to assure you that your interest in bondage, as long as it remains within healthy boundaries and consent, is considered normal. However, excessive involvement or reliance on pornography can have long-term negative effects on your well-being.

Engaging in consensual sexual activities and masturbation can be considered healthy, but it is important to be mindful of the potential issues that can arise from excessive pornography consumption.

Moreover, there is no connection between your interest in bondage and the likelihood of becoming a serial killer or engaging in criminal behavior. These are completely separate matters and should not be cause for concern.

I hope I have addressed your concerns. Feel free to reach out if you have any further questions.

Thank you.

Investigations to be done

Complete Blood Count, thyroid profile Vitamin B12, Vitamin D3.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi
Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Psychiatry

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