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How to deal with premature ejaculation?

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Published At February 21, 2024
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Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

I get a solid erection that lasts longer while masturbating, but when I am having sex with my wife, I ejaculate in a minute. I have a phimosis condition where my frenulum is attached, and I cannot pull it back when fully erect.

Thank you.

Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R

Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I can understand your concern about your symptoms,

  1. There are many reasons for Premature Ejaculation.
  2. Stressful work – night duties, twenty-four-hour jobs.
  3. Diabetes, hypertension, and thyroid issue affects Premature Ejaculation. Keeping your blood sugar, blood pressure, and thyroid hormones under control will help you.
  4. Long-term medication related to hypertension and anti-psychiatric medications.
  5. Frequent masturbation or prone masturbation.
  6. Excess porn.
  7. Receiving less foreplay from a partner or lack of knowledge regarding foreplay and female masturbation.
  8. Having an affair gives you a guilty feeling.
  9. Lack of exercise or obesity.
  10. You need to check fasting blood sugar and post-prandial sugar to rule out diabetes, BP, and Free T3T4TSH to rule out thyroid issues.

You can use the tablet Duralast 30 mg as a temporary solution.

Natural method

To Increase the foreplay duration during sex, women should receive 15 to 20 min of foreplay, and men should receive ten to fifteen min of foreplay for a good blood supply to the penis for a long and hard erection. Foreplay should be relaxed manner. Your partner should learn to give foreplay in a way you don’t ejaculate and enjoy.

  1. You can try relaxing music.
  2. Delay condoms can help you.
  3. Inserting the penis into the vagina is not everything in sex. Sex is not a race; duration doesn’t mean your partner is happy. Love your partner, learn about female masturbation, and give your partner orgasm or climax.

Thank you.

Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

Thank you for the advice.

I give orgasm to my wife, but she does not do any foreplay with me that delays my ejaculation.

Is it because I am uncircumcised that is not allowing me to control?

Thank you.

Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R

Hi,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

Circumcision would not have such efforts. Kindly ask your partner indirectly or directly if you need foreplay. It plays a major role.

Search online - Squeeze technique and stop-start technique will help you.

Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Raveendran S R
Dr. Raveendran S R

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