How to overcome the uncontrollable urge to ejaculate within the first stroke?

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I can understand your concern.

To better understand your situation and provide appropriate assistance, kindly provide the following details:

1. Do you have any medical conditions like diabetes or hypertension?
2. Have you undergone any surgeries in the past that might be relevant?
3. How long have you been experiencing this issue?
4. Can you estimate how quickly (in minutes) you ejaculate after penetration?
5. Are you experiencing any problems with achieving or maintaining erections?
6. Does premature ejaculation occur when you masturbate as well, or is it specific to sexual intercourse?
7. What is the name of the balm you are currently using, or could you share its key components?
8. Are you in a monogamous relationship, or do you have multiple sexual partners?

Kindly provide these details.

Thank you.

Hi,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

Thank you for providing those details.

The average duration of sexual intercourse for most men is between 5 to 15 minutes. I suggest you consider using a thick condom to reduce the sensitivity of your penile skin, which can help delay premature ejaculation.

I would also suggest you try using techniques like:

1. Start and stop: If you feel like you are about to ejaculate, slow down the speed for 10-15 seconds and then resume.
2. Squeeze technique: Pinch the base of your penis with mild to moderate force just before you feel you are going to ejaculate. Combining this with the start and stop technique can be effective.
3. Practice deep breathing and distracting your mind just before you anticipate ejaculation; these techniques can help delay ejaculation.
4. On-demand medication can be an option, but its availability may vary depending on your country of residence. You might need a prescription from your general practitioner, so kindly let me know if you would like to explore this option, and I can provide you with the drug name.

There are more effective alternatives to the balm you have been using, such as Lignocaine local anesthetic spray, which should be easily available over the counter at pharmacies or stores specializing in sexual health products. It is also important to have an open conversation with your partner. They can assist in slowing down intercourse when you feel like you are going to ejaculate. This emotional support is a crucial aspect of dealing with premature ejaculation.

I hope this information is helpful. If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask.

Thank you.