I am a 29 year old male, who weighs 75 kg and I am 5.7 feet tall. I got married two years back, and my wife is three years younger to me. She comes from a very simple family, and she has had no relationship before we got married. She is also the first woman in my life, and both of us have never had any physical relationship before, but I used to sexually intimate with the boys in my class in school. I never had sexual intercourse with them, but we used to masturbate each other. From my childhood, I get attracted to both men and women. After marriage, I am trying to stop those feelings.
After getting married, we use condoms while having sex, but I never knew whether my penis is inside the vagina or not. We wanted to have a baby after a year, so I stopped using condoms. But, both of us have some discomfort during sex, and ejaculation occurs outside the vagina. Nowadays I ejaculate very fast after getting excited, and my wife does not know much about sex.
My wife is very sensitive when I touch her vagina, and her muscles are also very tight, and she is having PCOD problem, and she is under treatment. So, we get intimate only twice or thrice a month. As a result, my masturbation has become even more regular. Also, we tried penetration a lot of times, but the moment I come close to her, I lose my erection. We are very frustrated and are dying to have a baby. I am very uncomfortable with my foreskin rolled down. I know for penetration the head of the penis, needs to be inserted, but the head is very sensitive. I consulted a surgeon about my penis, and he told it is normal, and I had done a semen analysis, which showed sperm motility is only 40%. So, the doctor suggested using Fertisure tablets. Please help us.
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Thank you for your suggestion. How to get rid of my feelings for men? My erection is normal when I sleep with my wife. But, the erection does not last long. I have observed that my erection is more strong towards men when compared with my wife. And I get nervous and ejaculate outside. When I ask my wife if my penis is inside, she says yes. I believe my wife does not know much about sexual intercourse. Please help me, and I feel as if I am cheating on my wife. Please suggest some psychological treatment or medication.
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