Dr. Raveendran S R
Sexology
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Hello doctor,
I got married before a month, and we are unable to have sex because of my very hard hymen. Yesterday I got bleeding during sex, and we thought it broke, but it was like a small tear from the side. My husband's penis is above average, and it is very hard, so I get unbearable pain every time, and he is unable to penetrate as I force him to stop. Is there any medicine to tear the hymen or only surgery is the option? Please help us.
Hello,
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I can understand your concern. Hymen will not be hard, and your partner needs to understand your vagina, proper foreplay will dilate the vaginal region for easy access. Ask your partner to masturbate for you and increase foreplay. The hymen does not generally break in the first penetrative sex. If your pain persists, it can be due to injury, wait for a week for the hymen to heal. If your pain persists, you can use a painkiller.
Increase the foreplay time or masturbation will lubricate the vagina for less painful sex. Use K-Y gel (water based lunbricant), or painkillers if you have any doubts regarding masturbation and foreplay. If all these basic things are fine, we can think of other surgical causes.
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