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How is premature ejaculation treated in newly married males?


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Published At January 31, 2024
Reviewed AtFebruary 6, 2024

Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I have been married for over a month, and my sexual life is doing great. We had sex every day after marriage and performed intercourse twice a day for one week. It is been two weeks that I have been facing an issue while having intercourse. Whenever we start having sex, everything goes normal until we finish foreplay and start intercourse. When I try to insert my penis, I get immediate discharge. If I try to do it again, I am having trouble making my penis hard for the second time. I tried to give a three-fourth day gap, thinking that might be the reason, but no luck. Before that, everything was normal and more than satisfactory. What should I do? Please help.

Thank you.

Answered by Dr. Raveendran S R


Welcome to icliniq.com.

I have read the query, and I can understand your concern.

There are many reasons for premature ejaculation, including:

  1. Stressful work such as night duties or twenty-four-hour jobs.

  2. Diabetes, hypertension, and thyroid issues affect premature ejaculation. Keeping your blood sugar, blood pressure, and thyroid hormones under control will help you.

  3. On long-term medication related to hypertension and anti-psychiatric medications.

  4. Frequent or prone masturbation.

  5. Excess pornography.

  6. Acquiring less foreplay from a partner or lack of knowledge regarding foreplay and female masturbation.

  7. Having an affair gives you a guilty feeling.

  8. Lack of exercise or obesity.

    You need to check FBS (fasting blood sugar) or PPBS (post-prandial blood sugar) to rule out diabetes, check your BP (blood pressure), and free T3 (triiodothyronine), T4 (thyroxine), TSH (thyroid-stimulating hormone) to rule out thyroid issues. You can use the tablet Duralast (Dapoxetine) 30 mg as a temporary solution. Consult a specialist doctor, talk to them, and then take the medication.

    A natural method to increase the foreplay duration during sex, women should receive 15 to 20 minutes of foreplay, and men should receive ten to fifteen minutes of foreplay for a good blood supply to the penis for a long and hard erection. Foreplay should be relaxed manner. Your partner should learn to give foreplay in a way you do not ejaculate and enjoy. You can try relaxing music, or delay condoms can help you. Inserting the penis into the vagina is not everything in sex. Sex is not a race, and a longer duration does not mean your partner is happy. Love your partner, learn about female masturbation, and give your partner an orgasm or climax.

    I hope this will help you.

    Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Raveendran S R
Dr. Raveendran S R


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