How to deal with premature ejaculation in a 27-year-old?

Question

Hello doctor,

I am a 27 year old married man. I suffer from premature ejaculation and poor erection since many years, but I was not aware of it until after marriage. I have taken lots of medicines in the past three years, including Ayurvedic and Allopathic. But I have not recovered yet. I have tried many doctors, but no one is able to resolve my issue yet. I also masturbate every day since many years and I guess my suffering is due to this. I have stopped it for few months, then started again. Now, I again stopped from the last three months. Now, I am not able to find out what the problem is, premature ejaculation or poor erection. As I am not sure if I developed my premature ejaculation in response to the erection problem. I guess this happens because I rush during the act as I fear I will not be able to maintain the erection for a sufficient time. Kindly help me in resolving this. I will share more details also, if needed.

Answer 1

Hello,

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Sexual problems in young men can be due to various factors. It can be associated with:

Psychological difficulties. Your mindset is not accustomed to having sex. So, at the time of sex, you cannot perform well. It could be related to anxiety, depression, stress, etc.
The general attitude towards sex.
Sexual attitude and response from female partner.
The non-sexual attitude of the female partner, that is the rapport you share with each other besides the physical relationship.
Erectile dysfunction, that is a problem in maintaining the erection of the penis for sexual activity.
Any medication history.
Capacity to coitus, that is inserting the penis into the female sex organ.

Follow up with a detailed explanation of your problem relating to the above-mentioned points.