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Why am I unable to penetrate during first intercourse at 30?

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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

I am a 30-year-male with a weight of 165 punds and a height 5 feet 7 inches. I recently got married. My wife is 28 years old. We had no relationships before. We are not able to have an intercourse. I get an erection but I am unable to penetrate her. I do not know whether erection is not enough or if her vagina is very tight. I used to masturbate earlier. My erection was good earlier. In the past, I had used Finpecia 1 mg for three months. Please help.

Answered by Dr. Nidhi Jain

Hello,

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I suggest you take tablet Dejac-T and (Dapoxetine) one tablet one hour before intercourse. Consult your specialist doctor, discuss with him or her and take the medicines with their consent. Also, apply KY jelly (water, glycerin, Hydroxyethycellulose, Chlorhexidine, Gluconate, Gluconolactone, Methylparaben, Sodium Hydroxide) on your penis just before intercourse. It will provide lubrication. Also, provide enough time for foreplay. This will help the vagina to dilate. Thank you and take care. Regards.

Answered byDr. Nidhi Jain

Medically reviewed byDr. K. Shobana

Published At February 11, 2018
Reviewed AtNovember 28, 2025

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