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I avoid sex as I absolutely do not want to get pregnant again. Please help.

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Published At August 27, 2017
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Patient's Query

Hi doctor,

I am a 34 year old female. I do not like sex because I am always worried that my partner will ejaculate inside me. He does not like using a condom. We always end up fighting during sex, as I ask him to use a condom and he does not want to. We have a son aged 9 years and I do not want another child. In the last 9 years, I took Unwanted 72 nearly 12 times. Please give me a remedy, so that we can enjoy sex. We have stopped having sex often because of these arguments.

Answered by Dr. Deepika Joshi

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

Firstly, do not take Unwanted 72 very often. Any emergency contraceptive pill has several adverse effects. There are many options like the intrauterine copper device or oral cyclical pills which you can consider.

Patient's Query

Thank you doctor,

I have heard that with oral pills we tend to put on weight. As I am already overweight, I am concerned. Can you suggest some oral pills that might suit me?

Answered by Dr. Deepika Joshi

Hello,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

There are several such pills available namely Femilon (Ethinyl Estradiol and Desogestrel) or Yamini LS (Ethinyl Estradiol and Drospirenone) or Dronis 20 (Ethinyl Estradiol and Drospirenone). You have to use it regularly. It contains 24 pills. Take 24 pills and then leave a gap of four days. Then restart it from the fifth day. The only thing is, you should get your periods during those four days. Start it from the fifth day irrespective of the day of your periods. The failure rate is very less if taken properly. If you miss a pill, take it as soon as you remember. With this method, you will not get pregnant, even if he ejaculates inside you. The only problem with these pills is that you have to take it daily. They usually do not cause much of a weight gain. Control your diet and do some exercises. I hope you do not suffer from hypertension, migraine or any other illness. Copper-T is also a good option for you. It is effective for five years. You can get it inserted by a gynecologist.

Patient's Query

Thank you doctor,

What if I get my periods before or after? Once I purchase it, I have to start it from the fifth day of my period. Am I correct?

Answered by Dr. Deepika Joshi

Hello,

Welcome back to icliniq.com.

No, you will have to start it from the first day of your period. If you use it regularly without missing, it will be 100 percent effective and your periods will also be regularized. And you will have your periods three days after stopping the pills.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Deepika Joshi
Dr. Deepika Joshi

Obstetrics and Gynecology

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