My husband watched a strip show and is feeling guilty. How to get him out of this?

Hello,

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He has developed the guilt post watching the show. As you are aware that he went to watch a strip show, I do not think there is any need for guilt. Watching strip show is like watching an adult movie which most of the men watch. Only you can help him to come out of that guilt.

1. First of all, explain to him that there is nothing wrong in watching a strip show or even if he imagines that show during sex. That thinking will go in some time. Try to spend more time in foreplay, and this will help him in forgetting that show.
2. If even after that the guilt persists, then there is a need to consult a psychiatrist.
3. Intrusive thoughts could be the part of anxiety. Treatment of anxiety by relaxation exercises and distraction will help in coming out of guilt.

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I hope this has helped you.

Thank you.

Hello,

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Sometimes, imagining other women is fine, and I do not think that you will have problems with that. But, watching other women in real is not acceptable. In my opinion, his desire will decrease with time because he is feeling guilty for his behavior. With time he will become normal. Talk to him about this matter and explain to him that he has not committed a crime.

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