Dr. Ramchandra Lamba
Psychiatry
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Patient's Query
Hello doctor,
I have lost sexual interest in my spouse and I do not get an erection at the thought of making love to her. Otherwise, I have no issues with erection. I masturbate daily and do online sex chat. Please advise how to bring back the lost sexual interest in spouse.
Hi,
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As you are addicted to online sex chat and masturbation, thus lost interest in your wife. Your sexual needs are fulfilled by that. So, first stop sex chat and masturbation for a week and spend time with your wife, and take her to romantic date or dinner. Try to remember the quality time you spend with her in past. Talk to her as you talk on online sex chat that will stimulate you. Also try to find the reason that why you lost interest in your wife. Ask your wife to change her dressing sense and visit a parlor.
Spending enough time with your wife and taking her to short weekend romantic trip will help you to find interest in her. Try to do these as much as possible. Go for evening walk with your wife.
Patient's Query
Thank you doctor,
Sure, will try that. To be honest I have started liking women who are endowed with bigger breasts and that is what I find missing. She has smaller size. I find big ones very stimulating.
Hi,
Welcome back to icliniq.com.
Yes, that may be one reason. You need to break the cycle of sex chat and spend time with your wife. Ask her to change a little in her dressing sense. She can use a specially designed bra to simulate big breast. Once you have spent time, these will change slowly.
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