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What causes ejaculation within a few seconds of intercourse?

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Published At June 14, 2023
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Hello doctor,

I am in a live-in relationship for the last three years and my problem is that I ejaculate within a few seconds of intercourse every time. I used to masturbate a lot in my childhood days. Is this the reason I am facing this problem of early ejaculation?

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I would like to tell you about masturbation which is just like night falls, as masturbation is a natural process But I would like to mention a fact here that masturbation or night falls is totally normal response to sex videos or even without sex videos. Almost every male does masturbation and most females too. So there is no harm in masturbating or having nightfall even daily. There is no physical weakness after masturbation, it is all psychological weakness. It does not cause faster aging these all are normal changes This myth is a disease created by quacks to make money from youth. Masturbation is totally normal and will never affect your sexual life in the future. There is no need to take any medicine to stop this because this is not a disease. It will end after marriage when you find your partner. Even in some instances after marriage like during the pregnancy period of the wife, immediately after childbirth, almost all husbands masturbate. Masturbation does not make you weak and it has no negative impact on your sexual well-being, it will not affect your physique or fitness. All of us masturbate, it is a totally normal phenomenon, not a bad habit or disease like addiction and obsession and never affects your physical health. There is no relation between semen and blood. It is also a myth that semen leaks during pee as it is impossible, what is leaking is a normal secretion of the prostate. Early ejaculation depends on our mental state if we are anxious type then these type of problems happens so it is most time happen secondary to anxiety features so first you have to control your anxiety symptoms by relaxation techniques and breathing exercises. You can start some exercise for premature ejaculation (ejaculation on little stimulation) like the start-stop technique in which whenever you go to the toilet just after starting, you stop your micturition for two to three seconds and then again release and repeat this for four to five times whenever you go for the toilet you will definitely feel improvement. Second thing sex is a process between two people so always both partners should be involved in therapy kk so ask your wife to divert your mind whenever you reach the climax it will also increase the timing. Please specify above mentioned need of mine for exact treatment for erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Eat healthy and stay healthy.

Thank you.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Pankaj Kumar Mittal
Dr. Pankaj Kumar Mittal

Psychiatry

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