My wife was given different opinions from two doctors. What shall we do?

Hi doctor,

My wife, who is 23 years old, has autoantibodies SSA strong positive 3+, SSB borderline positive and RO52 strong positive 3+. She lost her first pregnancy last year, because CHB was found on fetus by TIFFA at 19 weeks with fetal hydrops bradycardia. Now, she is 8 weeks pregnant. Our obstetrician planned the treatment as Aspirin 75 mg once daily, Enoxaparin 20 mg daily, Progesterone 200 mg tablet once daily and Dailyfol. She also planned to start fluorinated steroids from 12th week and immunoglobulin from 16th week. When we went for a second opinion two days back, fetal medicine specialist found large subchorionic hemorrhage and advised just to stop Enoxaparin. She advised us to come back again after a month as it is a high risk pregnancy. Why did she say so? Later, we consulted our obstetrician and she also advised to stop Enoxaparin temporarily because it is necessary for controlling antibodies. She advised Duphaston 10 mg twice daily, Xamic 500 mg twice daily in addition to the above and asked us to have a review after three days. We need a clear direction now. Can we prevent CHB with the above medication? Is really there a need for Enoxaparin? Who is the right person to follow? Should she get steroids for prevention of CHB? She has morning sickness and back pain from the beginning of pregnancy.

Thank you doctor,

Actually, last time, till the third month my wife was very well. But, in the third month, she used to faint when she stands for a minimum of 10 minutes. But, her gynecologist said there is nothing to worry. Then by the fourth month, as the doctor could not hear fetus heartbeat easily she advised for TIFFA scan. This time, I have consulted a doctor at icliniq.com already and consulting with a gynecologist now whom they recommended in my area. After the termination of pregnancy, my wife was on regular Aspirin 50 mg and Folinol. Actually, I am worrying more this time and so, in need of a second opinion always. Our gynecologist said Xamic 500 is to control bleeding. She also said actually at present there is no bleeding and it happened once internally. If so, then why did she prescribe Xamic? Also, the fetal medicine specialist did not prescribe anything. Why?